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bystander
@bystander.bsky.social
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🏳️‍🌈 | 🐻 | 👬 | Texas

Gaymer. Bear. Geek. Nerd. Professional homosexual.

Enjoy psychology and mental health stuff.

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How did no one tell me that Nine Perfect Strangers had another season???
June 18, 2025 at 2:42 AM
Cuntissimo. That is all.
April 21, 2025 at 1:16 AM
You know what, that was a really good season of Drag Race! I know some people want the frontrunner decimating the competition, but this feels like old school Drag Race when you had no idea who was going to pull ahead at the end. Love it!
April 19, 2025 at 6:44 PM
Yaaaass!! If you don’t know this podcast then go get your life right now! I’ll wait 💅
The Video Game Realness Podcast is back with a new episode!
We discuss the Switch 2 Direct and what we've been up to!
Check us out!

youtu.be/91Kwuezywgc
Video Game Realness RETURNS to Breakdown the Nintendo Switch 2 Direct
YouTube video by VGRealness
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April 6, 2025 at 10:55 PM
I should call him……
April 5, 2025 at 6:55 PM
Not someone calling their hole a “skin box”
February 23, 2025 at 7:39 PM
In reference to the possibility of a neighborhood cat scamming people out of food, my partner said “It’s like that Scamanda show, but a cat…..Scatmanda” 💀☠️🪦
February 23, 2025 at 3:46 AM
Smite 2 is definitely giving me what I needed.
January 20, 2025 at 4:43 AM
This is…..actually pretty good?
January 19, 2025 at 9:48 PM
I forgot how much I love teaching. Really happy to get back to it after so long.
January 15, 2025 at 5:08 AM
Went to a local anime con for the first time and it was cute! Very much the Goldilocks experience where they were big enough to be resourced but still small enough to feel intimate.
January 12, 2025 at 12:42 AM
Patti LuPone let the children HAVE 👏 IT 👏 on Agatha today. Damn. That one is going to stick with me for a long time.
October 24, 2024 at 4:43 AM
Bluesky now has over 10 million users, and I was #52,934!

This is really cute!
September 20, 2024 at 2:18 AM
Apple over here calling their event “Let Loose” and you know someone is waiting her royalty checks
Very That Loosey Laduca GIF
ALT: Very That Loosey Laduca GIF
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April 27, 2024 at 2:02 PM
Ok ok, so “Red, White and Royal Blue” was actually a pretty cute romcom
September 18, 2023 at 1:28 AM
Seeing Guild Wars 2 being so actively talked about here that someone made a feed, makes me very happy.
September 17, 2023 at 10:56 PM
Going to a gay campground with hubby and friends was definitely the weekend break I needed. But also now I don’t want to go back to work 😫
September 11, 2023 at 2:54 AM
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August 30, 2023 at 3:22 AM
Work has been a lot, but the gaming has been stellar thanks to the latest Guild Wars 2 expansion!
August 29, 2023 at 3:39 AM
I love how literally zero conservatives gave two shits about Barbie until she could talk. Seeing them get all mad and having a tantrum over a toy franchise is like when a kid says they are going to hold their breath until they die unless you buy them candy
July 21, 2023 at 1:32 PM
Ok so the vibe I’m getting is Threads is just side-hustle-Insta but with the words first. I see a lot more engagement there which is enticing, but ugh dealing with The Algorithmatizing(™️) of everything, influencers, and corporate stuff is just not appealing.
July 7, 2023 at 4:29 AM
Finally got to see the new Spider-Man movie, absolutely stunning visuals, great story, and amazing cast!
July 7, 2023 at 4:16 AM
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Today, last day of Gay Pride.

Tomorrow, first day of Gay Wrath.
June 30, 2023 at 5:44 PM
Wow, Vegas really working hard to keep their exhibits current. Too soon?
June 28, 2023 at 10:31 PM
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My daughter Maddy and I were reminiscing recently about how we used to have a daily contest, each morning when I drove her to school, to try and guess correctly what the Culver's Frozen Custard Flavor of the Day would be.

I see they've started coming up with new Custard flavours.
June 17, 2023 at 5:08 AM