Loser Baby is pretty good. Point stands for everything else tho

I have no idea what this means, but my first thought was "Is this loss??" and thats the strongest proof of me having a problem thus far.

I am so deadass rn those are actual quotes from when I thought I was cis and straight

honestly it was obvious before even *I* knew. "I am the anti-gender" "I am the gayest straight alive"- Totally Cis Calamity

I cant replicate it exactly on command much of the time either. I can get close but its never quite it if I try consciously

One of my relatives activates with certain words and phrases like a sleeper agent. I met someone who turned into a cowboy when they caught a cold. I'll randomly start sounding like Im in a western movie when Im talking to my pets. Y'all know the "Ni Howdy" guy? its basically that

this is NOT how I wanted to divide my paragraphs but BlueSky character limit is evil and autismist /j

(and gendered terms in general.) I could totally be wrong here, I dont have that much education on the subject outside of exsiting in queer spaces a lot, so lmk if I should have tomatoes thrown at me.

idk what to tag this so unless I figure that out Im just not going to lmao.

To be clear I have no issue with calling out incorrect pronouns, absolutely should be done regardless of what said pronoun is, I just think there should be a better word for it. Misgendering could be used for gendered terms, which would be effective to call attention to pronouns=/=gendered terms.

While pronouns can absolutely relate to gender, and depending on the person part of it, this isnt always the case and often pronouns =/= gender.
Using misgendering for pronouns feels like its enforciong the tie between gender and pronouns more when we should be going the opposite direction. (3/5)

Im not saying this ISNT misgendering, but the term "misgendering" is very confusing in this context, since the gender traditionally tied to those pronouns is correct. Also since pronouns as a whole can be removed from gender. Gender isnt the thing getting fumbled in this scenario, its the pronouns.

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I LOVE THIS DESIGN OMG?? actually peak

my beloved Glisten X Dazzle perhaps 👉👈