Sage
@callmesagexo.bsky.social
Host of The Patio Club Podcast 🎙️
Where the girls, the gays, and the theys come to gossip 🌈
Connection. Community. Consent. 💋
Linktr.ee/thepatioclubpodcast
Where the girls, the gays, and the theys come to gossip 🌈
Connection. Community. Consent. 💋
Linktr.ee/thepatioclubpodcast
The amount of trauma we are pouring into the future generations is terrifying. I can’t imagine the levels of autoimmune disease and cancer not to mention cognitive decline we’re going to see from the generations raised so steeped in this constant bad news overload cycle. We’re killing our future
October 14, 2025 at 6:00 AM
The amount of trauma we are pouring into the future generations is terrifying. I can’t imagine the levels of autoimmune disease and cancer not to mention cognitive decline we’re going to see from the generations raised so steeped in this constant bad news overload cycle. We’re killing our future
We are ✨LIVE✨ tonight with our first episode at 6 PM PST. Give it a listen while you get ready for date night or tomorrow morning over coffee!
September 5, 2025 at 8:58 PM
We are ✨LIVE✨ tonight with our first episode at 6 PM PST. Give it a listen while you get ready for date night or tomorrow morning over coffee!
We’re meant to live life building connections and leaving threads of ourselves with others. The amount of disconnect lately is awful.
September 4, 2025 at 5:43 PM
We’re meant to live life building connections and leaving threads of ourselves with others. The amount of disconnect lately is awful.
There is always room for improvement as long as people are willing to extend the grace to allow you to grow
August 19, 2025 at 10:32 PM
There is always room for improvement as long as people are willing to extend the grace to allow you to grow
You can’t tell me my body is a temple and then police how I decorate it and how I choose to receive worship. You put me on the pedestal and you’re welcome to find another temple.
August 18, 2025 at 8:38 PM
You can’t tell me my body is a temple and then police how I decorate it and how I choose to receive worship. You put me on the pedestal and you’re welcome to find another temple.
They separated us from our villages and gave us a fake version of connection because if we can’t have real conversations we’ll never truly be connected.
August 12, 2025 at 2:34 PM
They separated us from our villages and gave us a fake version of connection because if we can’t have real conversations we’ll never truly be connected.
It’s never too late to backtrack, change paths, or educate yourself. It just gets harder the longer you wait. Do it today and save your tomorrow.
August 8, 2025 at 5:51 PM
It’s never too late to backtrack, change paths, or educate yourself. It just gets harder the longer you wait. Do it today and save your tomorrow.
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My stunning chainmail bracelet from @verbscape.bsky.social arrived today 🥰🏳️🌈 I don't buy or wear a lot of jewellery but I can see this being on heavy rotation
August 8, 2025 at 4:27 AM
My stunning chainmail bracelet from @verbscape.bsky.social arrived today 🥰🏳️🌈 I don't buy or wear a lot of jewellery but I can see this being on heavy rotation
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In the end we aren’t searching for love. We’re searching for peace. We’ve just taught ourselves that peace can only be found with another that brings it to us wrapped in love. 💋
July 23, 2025 at 6:53 PM
In the end we aren’t searching for love. We’re searching for peace. We’ve just taught ourselves that peace can only be found with another that brings it to us wrapped in love. 💋
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Meet your host, Sage — your friendly guide through the wild, wonderful world of human sexuality! With a background in psychology and human sexuality studies, and a vibrant presence in kink and queer d...
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July 22, 2025 at 4:55 PM
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Why do people feel the need to tack “…but you must get this all the time…” to a compliment. Like what are you fishing for here because you’re clearly hoping to gain something and I’m not sure what but you gave me the ick and I think we can call it a day on that note.
July 20, 2025 at 2:39 AM
Why do people feel the need to tack “…but you must get this all the time…” to a compliment. Like what are you fishing for here because you’re clearly hoping to gain something and I’m not sure what but you gave me the ick and I think we can call it a day on that note.
“Relationships, intimacy, and sexuality can be such difficult topics to discuss because we are at our most vulnerable when we expose these parts of ourselves to others.”
But being vulnerable can draw the most authentic people to us. Vulnerability and authenticity breeds further intimacy we so need
But being vulnerable can draw the most authentic people to us. Vulnerability and authenticity breeds further intimacy we so need
July 19, 2025 at 2:26 PM
“Relationships, intimacy, and sexuality can be such difficult topics to discuss because we are at our most vulnerable when we expose these parts of ourselves to others.”
But being vulnerable can draw the most authentic people to us. Vulnerability and authenticity breeds further intimacy we so need
But being vulnerable can draw the most authentic people to us. Vulnerability and authenticity breeds further intimacy we so need
“We have our baggage and our trauma in tow, but we are doing the work to chip away at those weights to gain a sense of freedom and levity again. To gain back and take charge of our connections with others.” Connection matters. How are you finding yours?
July 18, 2025 at 10:23 PM
“We have our baggage and our trauma in tow, but we are doing the work to chip away at those weights to gain a sense of freedom and levity again. To gain back and take charge of our connections with others.” Connection matters. How are you finding yours?
I can’t wait for this to go live tonight!!!!
July 18, 2025 at 5:20 PM
I can’t wait for this to go live tonight!!!!
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Too much
Please call me too much
Show me how someone like you could never handle someone like me…
Without watering me down…
Without demanding I be less than…
Without asking me to snuff out pieces of myself just so you can shine brighter.
Please call me too much
Show me how someone like you could never handle someone like me…
Without watering me down…
Without demanding I be less than…
Without asking me to snuff out pieces of myself just so you can shine brighter.
July 15, 2025 at 3:58 PM
Too much
Please call me too much
Show me how someone like you could never handle someone like me…
Without watering me down…
Without demanding I be less than…
Without asking me to snuff out pieces of myself just so you can shine brighter.
Please call me too much
Show me how someone like you could never handle someone like me…
Without watering me down…
Without demanding I be less than…
Without asking me to snuff out pieces of myself just so you can shine brighter.
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Men will do anything except hold space for non men’s pain and emotion and then they wonder why we can’t be bothered to hold space for them. What you give is what you get and maybe there should be more focus on unlearning this toxic pick me behavior they have when we try to open up.
July 14, 2025 at 2:00 AM
Men will do anything except hold space for non men’s pain and emotion and then they wonder why we can’t be bothered to hold space for them. What you give is what you get and maybe there should be more focus on unlearning this toxic pick me behavior they have when we try to open up.
Colonialism is no longer conquering new lands it’s about conquering anyone not man and silencing them
July 13, 2025 at 8:19 PM
Colonialism is no longer conquering new lands it’s about conquering anyone not man and silencing them
Once upon a time the world was a very different place
We helped others
We shared knowledge and resources
We grew with the nature and world around us
We respected what we found out side of our spaces
We tamed just enough wild to stay alive
We honored the beauty around us
We have lost our way
We helped others
We shared knowledge and resources
We grew with the nature and world around us
We respected what we found out side of our spaces
We tamed just enough wild to stay alive
We honored the beauty around us
We have lost our way
July 11, 2025 at 4:49 PM
Once upon a time the world was a very different place
We helped others
We shared knowledge and resources
We grew with the nature and world around us
We respected what we found out side of our spaces
We tamed just enough wild to stay alive
We honored the beauty around us
We have lost our way
We helped others
We shared knowledge and resources
We grew with the nature and world around us
We respected what we found out side of our spaces
We tamed just enough wild to stay alive
We honored the beauty around us
We have lost our way
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Things that keep me up at night: seeing a lack of interest in is the sexual interest and hormone changes in people going through perimenopause and menopause. That should change. Especially with the increase in 55+ people having std/sti cases and finding sexual enjoyment after this stage of life.
July 8, 2025 at 5:08 AM
Things that keep me up at night: seeing a lack of interest in is the sexual interest and hormone changes in people going through perimenopause and menopause. That should change. Especially with the increase in 55+ people having std/sti cases and finding sexual enjoyment after this stage of life.
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When the streets are quiet
When the stores are empty
When the homes are silent
When the museums are bare
When the forests are gone
Maybe then they’ll know all we’ve lost.
When the stores are empty
When the homes are silent
When the museums are bare
When the forests are gone
Maybe then they’ll know all we’ve lost.
July 9, 2025 at 9:04 PM
When the streets are quiet
When the stores are empty
When the homes are silent
When the museums are bare
When the forests are gone
Maybe then they’ll know all we’ve lost.
When the stores are empty
When the homes are silent
When the museums are bare
When the forests are gone
Maybe then they’ll know all we’ve lost.