@carnalsolicitor.bsky.social
Lawyer exploring life, fun, and sex. Happily married, but also enjoying ethical poly/open relationships (vanilla or not). I have met many amazing friends through social media platforms and hope to do the same here.
Give yourself some grace. Be honest and also know that the first therapist also may not be the best fit. Be open to change to one that fits well to your style and self, not you adapting to them. Doing that, you may find it can help you in ways you didn't know. Wishing the best for you.
December 11, 2025 at 6:36 AM
Give yourself some grace. Be honest and also know that the first therapist also may not be the best fit. Be open to change to one that fits well to your style and self, not you adapting to them. Doing that, you may find it can help you in ways you didn't know. Wishing the best for you.
Fingers crossed and hoping for the best.
December 5, 2025 at 5:56 AM
Fingers crossed and hoping for the best.
Absolutely. It can be demoralizing when the fun is taken away. I had to step away for a little bit for that reason, but came back and reestablished several good friendships and it made it so much better again.
November 24, 2025 at 8:25 PM
Absolutely. It can be demoralizing when the fun is taken away. I had to step away for a little bit for that reason, but came back and reestablished several good friendships and it made it so much better again.
Definitely understand the desire. It can bring many negatives to our lives for sure. I have also found that getting that right group of support helps. It is hard to block out the negativity, but there are amazing people, too. I hope you find thay balance and keep "gathering" the amazing people, too.
November 24, 2025 at 8:20 PM
Definitely understand the desire. It can bring many negatives to our lives for sure. I have also found that getting that right group of support helps. It is hard to block out the negativity, but there are amazing people, too. I hope you find thay balance and keep "gathering" the amazing people, too.
One of the best feelings for both people I think.
November 16, 2025 at 7:28 AM
One of the best feelings for both people I think.
Quite wonderful.
November 12, 2025 at 2:27 AM
Quite wonderful.
Not sure I have heard that one before, but to each their own. Hope you have some fun with it.
November 9, 2025 at 4:13 AM
Not sure I have heard that one before, but to each their own. Hope you have some fun with it.
I don't think we need to humor you at all. You have always looked good for the years I have known you.
November 6, 2025 at 10:14 PM
I don't think we need to humor you at all. You have always looked good for the years I have known you.
Seriously, is it fair to swipe left only because he likes to starve himself and has a large nose. 😉
October 23, 2025 at 12:27 PM
Seriously, is it fair to swipe left only because he likes to starve himself and has a large nose. 😉
Try a Snickers for when you aren't feeling like yourself? Seriously, though, I hope you feel better soon.
October 16, 2025 at 11:58 PM
Try a Snickers for when you aren't feeling like yourself? Seriously, though, I hope you feel better soon.
Hey, look there - another skeleton to add to the yard decorations. Seems so real, even.
October 9, 2025 at 11:56 PM
Hey, look there - another skeleton to add to the yard decorations. Seems so real, even.
Really hope you start feeling better soon.
September 28, 2025 at 11:36 PM
Really hope you start feeling better soon.
Or maybe you are just a banana eating enthusiast and are just trying to understand the best practices to obtain good fiber and potassium. I mean, it really isn't your fault you prefer bigger bites and have always been that way. I'm sure he will buy that, right? 😈
September 25, 2025 at 12:06 AM
Or maybe you are just a banana eating enthusiast and are just trying to understand the best practices to obtain good fiber and potassium. I mean, it really isn't your fault you prefer bigger bites and have always been that way. I'm sure he will buy that, right? 😈
Who knows, maybe the neurosurgeon is kinky. 🤔
September 24, 2025 at 11:43 PM
Who knows, maybe the neurosurgeon is kinky. 🤔
That is awesome to hear. So glad you can get back out and do something you enjoy.
September 24, 2025 at 12:40 AM
That is awesome to hear. So glad you can get back out and do something you enjoy.
That is hilarious because I had a female friend who had almost the exact same experience about a year ago, just the second handle wasn't Strava. We were laughing that she felt more comfortable early on sharing her Fetlife profile and pics before everyday "mundane" aspects of her life.
September 22, 2025 at 4:21 PM
That is hilarious because I had a female friend who had almost the exact same experience about a year ago, just the second handle wasn't Strava. We were laughing that she felt more comfortable early on sharing her Fetlife profile and pics before everyday "mundane" aspects of her life.
Fingers crossed and hoping for the best. You deserve to have that good relationship.
September 17, 2025 at 11:39 PM
Fingers crossed and hoping for the best. You deserve to have that good relationship.
You are amazing for more than just your body. I love to see it when I can, but just as much enjoy hearing about everything else that makes you special. Heal up, Siren, and hope you get cleared soon.
September 9, 2025 at 11:43 PM
You are amazing for more than just your body. I love to see it when I can, but just as much enjoy hearing about everything else that makes you special. Heal up, Siren, and hope you get cleared soon.
Absolutely. Genius/gifted is not just numbers and science. There are many artists, writers, and other liberal arts people who were and are extremely gifted and often geniuses, but had no gift for science. And that is wonderful to see creativity is also an amazing human gift, not just science/math.
September 1, 2025 at 3:17 AM
Absolutely. Genius/gifted is not just numbers and science. There are many artists, writers, and other liberal arts people who were and are extremely gifted and often geniuses, but had no gift for science. And that is wonderful to see creativity is also an amazing human gift, not just science/math.
Makes perfect sense. Well, here is hoping you heal up even sooner than expected so you can get back with the partners that can call you the better, dirtier names.
August 24, 2025 at 3:01 AM
Makes perfect sense. Well, here is hoping you heal up even sooner than expected so you can get back with the partners that can call you the better, dirtier names.
Very true. What would have been the preferred honorific or really just not use one?
August 24, 2025 at 2:53 AM
Very true. What would have been the preferred honorific or really just not use one?
Especially when there are so many dirtier things you would rather be called, right?
August 24, 2025 at 2:48 AM
Especially when there are so many dirtier things you would rather be called, right?
Looking amazing as always. Really hope you still got to have fun in the sun.
July 5, 2025 at 12:31 AM
Looking amazing as always. Really hope you still got to have fun in the sun.
Hope you have a wonderful, and shall we say, impactful time.
May 13, 2025 at 11:49 PM
Hope you have a wonderful, and shall we say, impactful time.
There are still clever ways to get around these restrictions. 😉
May 13, 2025 at 9:24 PM
There are still clever ways to get around these restrictions. 😉