Dealing with allistics can be a pain because you don't know which ones you'll be able to communicate with easily. I have found that it is much easier to talk to other neurospicy, especially autistics. I'd wager many if not most of your moots are autistic. I myself am AuDHD

You can write whatever you want. You can have character from different seasons, different Digimon show, or even straight up from a different fandom

The first step to being good at something is to be bad at it. Success does not help you learn, failure does.

I wish you the best of luck!

WoL in terms of Final Fantasy means Warrior of Light. FFXIV has the player character(s) and a few other important npcs designated as WoL as a call back to the NES and SNES FF games where your party is called some variation of WoL or Warrior of the Crystal