and, ofc, i have video of her. when i'm waiting in an emergency department at 2am for the latest set of labs to result, i don't actually want ai generated photos or video of cats. i want video of *my* cat

But in reality, we're all disabled. Maybe you're in a moment of respite from it, or in that brief window before the truth of the inevitability of it has been revealed to you (sorry, spoiler warning!), but it's true for all of us — even when it's not visible. So we must default to accommodation.

The problem to be solved is the system. How do we make the system want to be as generous as our hearts are? How do we make the system stop denying that there is enough to go around? How do we make them stop lying? No, not the people asking for accommodation — the liars are the systems _denying_ it.

And, finally, will you be able to truly love yourself when you are the person asking for accommodation? Is that part of what you're afraid of and why you're lashing out at having to confront these systems? You will never fix what's missing in caring for people by investing in punishing people.

while we're om this topic, remind everyone that not everyone is american and other countries have their own lace code
generalizing stuff like this can be extremely dangerous, in several places red is for communists or anarchists.

While we're on this topic and you're all here DO NOT use red or white laces on a Doc Marten style boot. I know most folks don't do lace code anymore, but it's better to not fuck with those colours just in case!