I’ll probably forget to check my messages here for like another 6 months lmao BUT if you want to talk just text me ok 🥺

Also hi happy new year IVE BEEN AFK REAL HARD CORE BUT I HOPE UR HANGING IN THERE 🎉🎉🎉

Easier said than done, I know!!! 😭 But it’s an important talk. Write it out if it’s easier. Family should NEVER make you consistently miserable. Mistakes happen, but unconditional love demands accountability and change. And if she can’t, you can walk away. You owe your parents nothing for being born

You can acknowledge how your decisions make HER feel and assure her you take that into account with the decisions you make. But ultimately, to be healthy you need to take care of your emotional needs first, not hers or anyone else’s.

NOT her. Sometimes what you need is to be away from them so that on the next family event, you can be fully present and available. Asking more of you is hurtful and leaves room for resentment to fester if you’re forced to do things you can’t and guilted for not performing. Tell her to stop 😬

“Hey, mom, you can’t text me while at work or I’ll block you until I’m ready to read your messages.”

Try and gather the gusto to lay down the way she’s making you feel. You aren’t like her other kids, but you’re also not a baby she can grill her expectations on. You know what’s good for you now,

It’s bc they still see you as a dependent, incapable child and therefore their house rules and expectations are more hammered down on you. Your siblings are Normal Adults who they can’t tell what to do. Your parents (or at least mom) don’t respect you. It’s ok to set a firm boundary with her, like—

Love that!!! 😤💖 And sadly I’ve been very overworked, doing 2 retail jobs 7 days a week 😅 I’m very behind on Enzan arts!!!

OOOOOH….. I love this hairstyle for Enzan 😤💖

What the heck this is so sweet 😭💖

btw i've dropped the price of the nsfw tier on patre0n 🥺 you can read more about it here! www.patreon.com/posts/mini-s...

That’s a good idea 😭🙏 remembering to do it will be a challenge, but I’ll try my best!!!

OOOOOH!!!! Happy birthday!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳 I’m a little late but I’m wishing you good times anyway! 💖