Anya
@chronicallyanya.bsky.social
🇺🇦🌻| avid reader, law girlie, russian-canadian adoptee, mental health advocate ( https://rcda.ca )
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Anya
@chronicallyanya.bsky.social
· Apr 7
“It takes courage to be kind”- Maya Angelou💙
I love opened minded people that can understand things from multiple perspectives.
June 1, 2025 at 3:00 AM
I love opened minded people that can understand things from multiple perspectives.
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Realistic trauma recovery embraces the reality that the exercise, conscious eating, & other physical self care habits that undeniably do support health & recovery, may diverge significantly from what a superficial, ableist culture thinks of as "fitness."
May 27, 2025 at 9:01 PM
Realistic trauma recovery embraces the reality that the exercise, conscious eating, & other physical self care habits that undeniably do support health & recovery, may diverge significantly from what a superficial, ableist culture thinks of as "fitness."
People who introduce you to new ways of thinking and new ways of seeing life are so important.
May 24, 2025 at 8:24 PM
People who introduce you to new ways of thinking and new ways of seeing life are so important.
Train yourself not to become too emotionally attached to anyone, because when they stop talking to you, you might never recover from it. Remember people wake up with different feelings everyday.
May 22, 2025 at 12:16 PM
Train yourself not to become too emotionally attached to anyone, because when they stop talking to you, you might never recover from it. Remember people wake up with different feelings everyday.
At first, grief is an ocean that pulls you under.
with time, it becomes a river that you learn to swim in.
but these waves..
they never stop coming.
with time, it becomes a river that you learn to swim in.
but these waves..
they never stop coming.
May 20, 2025 at 2:19 PM
At first, grief is an ocean that pulls you under.
with time, it becomes a river that you learn to swim in.
but these waves..
they never stop coming.
with time, it becomes a river that you learn to swim in.
but these waves..
they never stop coming.
Pain teaches in a language that cannot be translated, only survived.
It strips away pretense, leaving only the essential questions-what matters, who will stay, how will I begin again? I have come to see pain as the one true teacher I never
wanted, but now trust implicitly.
-r.m. drake
It strips away pretense, leaving only the essential questions-what matters, who will stay, how will I begin again? I have come to see pain as the one true teacher I never
wanted, but now trust implicitly.
-r.m. drake
May 18, 2025 at 4:33 PM
Pain teaches in a language that cannot be translated, only survived.
It strips away pretense, leaving only the essential questions-what matters, who will stay, how will I begin again? I have come to see pain as the one true teacher I never
wanted, but now trust implicitly.
-r.m. drake
It strips away pretense, leaving only the essential questions-what matters, who will stay, how will I begin again? I have come to see pain as the one true teacher I never
wanted, but now trust implicitly.
-r.m. drake
The person you're missing today is making a conscious decision each day to not have you in their life. And that's all the closure you need
May 12, 2025 at 4:44 AM
The person you're missing today is making a conscious decision each day to not have you in their life. And that's all the closure you need
Sometimes I wonder, how life would've been, when I had the chance to really live, instead of healing from many things, that weren't my fault
May 10, 2025 at 4:41 AM
Sometimes I wonder, how life would've been, when I had the chance to really live, instead of healing from many things, that weren't my fault
Nothing annoys me more than when someone expects you to be okay with something that they wouldn't be okay with if it was done to them.
April 19, 2025 at 11:31 PM
Nothing annoys me more than when someone expects you to be okay with something that they wouldn't be okay with if it was done to them.
One deep talk and apology can fix a lot of shit but people ain't mature enough for that.
April 15, 2025 at 5:25 PM
One deep talk and apology can fix a lot of shit but people ain't mature enough for that.
Unfortunately,
some people will never bother to ask for your side of the story, because the side they heard, fits how they want to feel about you.
some people will never bother to ask for your side of the story, because the side they heard, fits how they want to feel about you.
April 13, 2025 at 12:48 AM
Unfortunately,
some people will never bother to ask for your side of the story, because the side they heard, fits how they want to feel about you.
some people will never bother to ask for your side of the story, because the side they heard, fits how they want to feel about you.
Saw a quote that said:
"There are hearts that do not know how to hate no matter how much they have been wronged."
I felt it on another level.
"There are hearts that do not know how to hate no matter how much they have been wronged."
I felt it on another level.
April 12, 2025 at 7:48 PM
Saw a quote that said:
"There are hearts that do not know how to hate no matter how much they have been wronged."
I felt it on another level.
"There are hearts that do not know how to hate no matter how much they have been wronged."
I felt it on another level.
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Try to burn and ban all the books but writers will write and readers will read.
April 10, 2025 at 2:40 AM
Try to burn and ban all the books but writers will write and readers will read.
Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their disrespect.
April 11, 2025 at 5:26 AM
Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their disrespect.
At a certain point, you're no longer just a product of your environment or upbringing. The way you choose to operate becomes your personal responsibility.
April 10, 2025 at 3:21 AM
At a certain point, you're no longer just a product of your environment or upbringing. The way you choose to operate becomes your personal responsibility.
People treat you, exactly how they feel about you. Don't be blind.
April 8, 2025 at 8:03 PM
People treat you, exactly how they feel about you. Don't be blind.
A little reminder you are allowed to talk about what they did to you and how it hurt you it does not matter how they feel about you talking about it because if they wanted people to think better of them they should have been better.
April 8, 2025 at 12:35 PM
A little reminder you are allowed to talk about what they did to you and how it hurt you it does not matter how they feel about you talking about it because if they wanted people to think better of them they should have been better.
“It takes courage to be kind”- Maya Angelou💙
April 7, 2025 at 4:50 PM
“It takes courage to be kind”- Maya Angelou💙
Anybody who easily believes lies about you without finding out your side of the story, was already looking for a way to go against you.
April 7, 2025 at 4:25 AM
Anybody who easily believes lies about you without finding out your side of the story, was already looking for a way to go against you.
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It is not your fault that you couldn't perfectly guess the wants, needs, or reactions of parents, teachers, coaches, bosses, therapists, or others who were in the habit of leveraging their power over you to stay "one up" in the relationship.
April 7, 2025 at 1:06 AM
It is not your fault that you couldn't perfectly guess the wants, needs, or reactions of parents, teachers, coaches, bosses, therapists, or others who were in the habit of leveraging their power over you to stay "one up" in the relationship.
"Don't feel too bad about letting them go. They didn't make an effort to keep you, and they didn't give you any reasons to stay."
- R. M. Drake
- R. M. Drake
April 7, 2025 at 4:07 AM
"Don't feel too bad about letting them go. They didn't make an effort to keep you, and they didn't give you any reasons to stay."
- R. M. Drake
- R. M. Drake
Sometimes I feel like my life Is being written by someone who Isn't sure if they like me or not.
April 4, 2025 at 5:27 AM
Sometimes I feel like my life Is being written by someone who Isn't sure if they like me or not.
I hope you heal so deeply that you no longer feel the need to make sense of what happened.
April 3, 2025 at 12:14 PM
I hope you heal so deeply that you no longer feel the need to make sense of what happened.
If you see me stop and stare at the sky, let me. I got some people up there who left before I could make them proud.
April 2, 2025 at 3:34 AM
If you see me stop and stare at the sky, let me. I got some people up there who left before I could make them proud.
“Most of your stress comes from the way you respond to life, and not the way life really is.
Adjust your attitude and leave that stress behind.”
Adjust your attitude and leave that stress behind.”
April 1, 2025 at 9:33 PM
“Most of your stress comes from the way you respond to life, and not the way life really is.
Adjust your attitude and leave that stress behind.”
Adjust your attitude and leave that stress behind.”