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Can we get those instructions or could they be released please?

It does have to be manually switched on, and you would need to set up port forwarding on your router to be visible, but enough people have the instructions, they'll be shared if it ever comes to it.

"Poor man's matchmaking" like some indie PC games do, where it keeps a directory of the last 100 IPs it has learned of other machines you've played with, and pings them directly to see if they're available. You can manually add to the list.

Two: An AI must respect human autonomy and privacy, and act transparently so humans are always in control of decisions.

Three: An AI must provide support and information to benefit human understanding, unless doing so conflicts with the first or second laws.