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elle | trickster connaisseur
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🌈 Your local trickster spirit 🐍
🌊 Abolitionist. Mother. Folk Witch. Myth. 🧿
🎮 Either playing a game or writing fics about one👩🏽‍💻
📍mvskoke lands / appalachian foothills 🧜🏾‍♀️
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#Promosky

🌈 tricksters & the fair folk
🌈 queer history
🌈 paganism (celtic lokean)
🌈 folk witchcraft
🌈 mutual aid and abolition
🌈 RPG & cozy video games
🌈 fanfiction reading/writing
🌈 folklore & mythology
🌈 directing & stage managing
🌈 low demand parenting
🌈 concerts (emo especially)
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My Heathen group’s Yule gathering is tomorrow so I’m writing my Roasts, Toasts, and Boasts for it.

My Boasts:
1. Didn’t kill myself.
2. Didn’t kill anyone else.
3. Wrote and published 70k words in 4 months.
December 19, 2025 at 12:59 PM
Explaining to my kiddo why we say “happy holidays” to people we don’t know instead of assuming they celebrate Christmas feels surreal when my mom used to get mad at me if I wrote “Xmas” and not CHRISTmas.
December 19, 2025 at 12:50 PM
When I say I want to be a filmmaker, I mean I want to write a book that I turn into a screenplay before I turn it into a film that I work on as a costumer, prop maker, makeup artist, set designer, cinematographer, and director.
December 10, 2025 at 1:28 PM
I just finished watching 100 Nights of Hero and I think Julia Jackman just became one of my favorite directors. Holy shit. It was SO GOOD.
December 8, 2025 at 8:30 PM
My endocrinologist was praising me because it looked like I lost 30 pounds in the last 5 months.

Except, I’ve actually been working my mental ass off to MAINTAIN my weight for the last 2 because my ED is back and those 30 pounds were lost in a 3 month time span. 🙃
December 5, 2025 at 4:12 PM
I think ALL medical professionals need have at least a basic understanding of eating disorders considering how most of them are convinced weight loss solves all health problems.
December 5, 2025 at 4:09 PM
You might be able to escape Christianity but VeggieTales songs will haunt you all of your days.
December 4, 2025 at 5:10 PM
When my kid started public school, I thought i'd be able to finally work my way out of burnout.

So far, that hasn't happened, but I have concluded that being a full-time parent kept me too busy to realize how depressed I actually am. So, that's been fun.
December 4, 2025 at 2:58 PM
Actually, I don't want to learn anything new about myself, thanks.
December 4, 2025 at 2:51 PM
For as rare as my therapist having to cancel our appointment is, it always happens on a week I have something big to discuss. 🙃
December 4, 2025 at 2:12 PM
Just checked audition information for a local community theatre. If you’re cast in a show they require a performance fee of FOUR HUNDRED DOLLARS!!!

That is absolutely insane.
December 3, 2025 at 8:49 PM
Me: Nah, I’m over that friend breakup, it was years ago.

Also me: HAVE ANOTHER DRINK AND DRIVE YOURSELF HOME. I HOPE THERE’S ICE ON ALL THE ROADS AND YOU CAN THINK OF ME WHEN YOU FORGET YOUR SEATBELT AND AGAIN WHEN YOUR HEAD GOES THROUGH THE WINDSHIELD
November 26, 2025 at 10:33 PM
“Be comfortable in your own skin!!”

okay but my skin has like 5 different chronic issues at all times sooo
November 26, 2025 at 5:18 AM
How many virtual appointments do I need to have with my new therapist before it’s cool for me to show up with my hair a mess? Lmao
November 3, 2025 at 4:02 PM
Please ignore the bags under my eyes I keep them packed in case I have to get out of town quickly.
November 1, 2025 at 10:55 PM
Is my face red at the gym because I’m working out or because the rivals just became lovers in the fic I’m listening to?

The answer is yes.
October 24, 2025 at 12:40 PM
What exactly is the purpose of a protest if it has a set start / end time and you got a permit for it? Genuinely asking.
October 17, 2025 at 12:13 AM
I’m playing Persona 3 Reload for the first time and I’ve been waiting to meet Ryoji the entire time. I’m 45 hours into the game and he has yet to make an appearance. 😭
October 15, 2025 at 2:40 PM
My ringtone for my ex when I was 21 was always Hot and Cold by Katy Perry and that really should have been seen a the sign it was lmao
October 15, 2025 at 2:35 PM
One of the most frustrating parts of being an autistic mom raising an autistic kid is all the local playgroups for autistic kids are chock-full of Autism Speaks, puzzle pieces, and “Autism Mamas.”

Can we do the bare minimum research into the current culture of the neurotype your child has, please?
October 14, 2025 at 2:59 PM
#Promosky

🌈 tricksters & the fair folk
🌈 queer history
🌈 paganism (celtic lokean)
🌈 folk witchcraft
🌈 mutual aid and abolition
🌈 RPG & cozy video games
🌈 fanfiction reading/writing
🌈 folklore & mythology
🌈 directing & stage managing
🌈 low demand parenting
🌈 concerts (emo especially)
🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
October 12, 2025 at 2:45 PM
One of the most frustrating parts of losing weight as someone in ED recovery is the amount of people that will comment on it repeatedly despite you asking them not to mention it. 🙃
October 12, 2025 at 2:23 PM
If my homeschooled kid’s first concert is all about fascism and propaganda, does it count as a field trip?
September 14, 2025 at 12:20 AM
Y’all!! Stop putting pictures of your children on your dating profiles!! That’s so dangerous!!
August 27, 2025 at 11:02 PM
Someone’s dating profile said dating them is like learning a new language and damn, I didn’t realize being dyslexic would affect my relationship prospects too.
August 27, 2025 at 11:01 PM