It is challenging to be unsure of how the other person feels, especially when you long for that reciprocal appreciation and love. But sometimes, it takes open, honest communication for both of you to find clarity. I hope you can find that connection and build something genuine together.

I feel you completely. Yet here I am, still stuck, hoping he’ll pick me as if my worth depends on his decision. I know it’s unfair to myself, clinging to the idea of us, but it’s hard just to be friends when we have already invested so much. I have not stopped wanting him to need my value.

You’re right, I need to start putting myself first and stop letting people drain me. Being a good guy doesn’t mean I have to sacrifice my peace. Thanks for the uplift mentality—I hope this feeling passes soon too.

Appreciate you 🫂 😉

Man, I feel that on a deep level. Investing so much in people is painful, if only to be met with lies, distance, or straight-up disrespect. You give your heart, time, and trust; it just feels like it’s never enough for the one you connect with. It’s draining, and yeah, it gets depressing real quick.

Being a good guy feels like a jinx. I gave my all—time, energy, emotions—only to be taken advantage of. People assume I will always be there, never considering the toll it carries. Ultimately, there’s been no reward, just disappointment; picking up my pieces alone left me feeling utterly worthless.

👋🏾 🏡 Hey neighbor!