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I'm Emilee, a chronic pain spoonie, a mom, and an author.

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So excited to share my new rat-parent newsletter 🐀✨ — The Crabby Rat Whisperer!
If you love pet rats or want real-world help, come join the cozy corner 👇
#RatParents #PetRats #SmallAnimalCare #Newsletter
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🐀Welcome to The Crabby Rat Whisperer
Clear explanations, calmer care, and fewer late-night Google spirals
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crabbyratwhisperer.bsky.social
So excited to share my new rat-parent newsletter 🐀✨ — The Crabby Rat Whisperer!
If you love pet rats or want real-world help, come join the cozy corner 👇
#RatParents #PetRats #SmallAnimalCare #Newsletter
thecrabbyratwhisperer.substack.com/p/welcome-to...
🐀Welcome to The Crabby Rat Whisperer
Clear explanations, calmer care, and fewer late-night Google spirals
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January 19, 2026 at 1:08 AM
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The Household Items I’ve Accidentally Fallen in Love With
Objects that would be meaningless to anyone else, yet somehow know my whole emotional history.
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January 17, 2026 at 3:21 PM
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When Creativity Crawls Into Bed With You
The anxiety — and magic — of inspiration arriving at inconvenient hours.
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January 17, 2026 at 3:21 PM
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I Stopped Writing Like I Wanted Followers and Everything Shifted
Authenticity is a magnet; we don’t need to shout or mimic
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January 17, 2026 at 3:20 PM
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The Black Sheep Who Stopped Pretending Everything Was Fine
When you’re the truth-teller in a family that worships denial
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January 17, 2026 at 3:19 PM
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Soft Things Grow Back: Notes on Reclaiming Myself After Leaving
Healing is weird, nonlinear, and sometimes louder than the harm ever was.
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January 17, 2026 at 3:19 PM
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When a Shower Feels Like Climbing Out of a Well
Not every battle is dramatic. Some look like rinsing shampoo out of your hair.
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January 17, 2026 at 3:18 PM
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Let Them Misunderstand You — and Watch What Happens Next
Sometimes peace looks like unanswered messages and unmatched energy.
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January 17, 2026 at 3:17 PM
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When You’re Not “Too Much” — They Were Simply Too Little
This world needs the people who feel, cry, rage, and care loudly.
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January 17, 2026 at 3:15 PM
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Healing Didn’t Make Me Kinder… It Made Me Real
The real transformation was choosing my truth over their comfort.
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January 17, 2026 at 3:14 PM
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Emotions Aren’t Weakness — They’re Data
A love letter to the people who feel everything a little too loudly
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January 17, 2026 at 2:54 PM
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10 Lessons in Self-Abandonment That Trauma Sneaks Into Your Bones
Patterns you didn’t ask for… and the quiet hope of finding your way back to yourself.
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January 17, 2026 at 2:53 PM
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Less, But Not in the Way People Mean
No aesthetic. No rules. Just room.
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January 17, 2026 at 2:52 PM
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The Emotional Labor of Never Being the One Who Breaks
What happens when everyone leans — and you’re the wall
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January 17, 2026 at 2:51 PM
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Parenting My Inner Child While Raising Actual Children
What happens when your kids trigger the parts of you no one parented
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January 17, 2026 at 2:47 PM
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I Loved Writing Long Before I Let It Pay My Rent
I didn’t lose the magic. I lost the shame
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January 17, 2026 at 2:45 PM
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The Day My Anxiety Spoke a Language I Finally Understood
I wasn’t broken. I was overwhelmed — and no one taught me the difference
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January 17, 2026 at 2:40 PM
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The Ache of Wanting a Life That Isn’t Mine
Why I keep learning — reluctantly — that my happiness isn’t supposed to look like yours
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January 17, 2026 at 2:39 PM
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The Therapist Who Left Without Me
What losing a therapist taught me about grief, attachment, and identity
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January 17, 2026 at 2:38 PM
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The Quiet Power of Applauding a Stranger on the Internet
The way small gestures on Medium help writers feel less like they’re whispering into a void
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January 17, 2026 at 2:37 PM
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Invisible Thunderstorms and Other Moods I Can’t Name
How feelings arrive like weather: unpredictable, inconvenient, and wildly instructive
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January 17, 2026 at 2:37 PM
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This Noise Is Not an Error
You’ll Need Proof That This Happened
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January 17, 2026 at 2:35 PM
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When Emotional Literacy Becomes the Real Homework
The ungraded skills that make us more human than academic metrics ever will.
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January 17, 2026 at 2:33 PM
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Writing Until It Sounded Like Me Again
On voice, visibility, and letting the sentences be a little weird
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January 17, 2026 at 2:29 PM
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Explaining It Better Doesn’t Mean It Hurts Less
On pain & coherence amid the performance of ‘doing better’
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January 17, 2026 at 2:28 PM