I am still struggling over the loss of my cat last week, and the images are still quite fresh in my mind. All I can say is that the good memories will eventually float to the surface and remain. The darker ones may not disappear -- but will not be a priority when you initially think of them.

You totally should give them a try. They will be my 24/7 diaper going forward, and that's coming from a traditionally plastic-backed wearer. Once they're available in the US, I'm all in.

Zootopia 2 got spoiled for me already in this way, and I haven't seen it yet. Kinda bummed.

I would try to focus on the non-sexual aspect (i.e. being a middle) unless they explicitly ask you about it.