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Lucy 🎀
@cuddly-nerd.bsky.social
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She/Her. 23. Lesbian. Autistic. Slovakia. Student of English Language & Anglophone Cultures.
Interests (I post about): VFlower, Ghost & Pals, Vocaloid, LavenderTowne, Heartstrings (adult webcomic), yuri, art, MLP, J-fashion.
❌ Anti-AI/NFT
Pinned
(@itsmattrose.bsky.social Sorry to bother you but... video idea?)

My gayass was once so sleepy and horny at the same time that I accidentally misread "baked treats" as "naked breasts" 💀
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Hey you, person reading this who isn't over something that hurt you months or years ago, but feeling compelled to hide or deny that you're still hurting. You need to know you're not abnormal or "broken." There's no timetable for these things, & MANY people fake it to seem "fine."
January 8, 2026 at 4:25 AM
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Remember today that access to you & a role in your life is a privilege, not a right. I don't care if someone happens to share your name or DNA. Nobody gets a "free pass" into your life.

Beware those attempting to buy, blackmail, or bully their way in.
January 8, 2026 at 4:24 AM
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You get to have expectations of others. It is not unreasonable to expect certain things from people who have opted into roles in your life. You don't need to feel guilty for asking people to live up to certain standards & adhere to certain boundaries if they want access to you.
January 8, 2026 at 4:23 AM
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Trauma sensitizes us to loss, because all trauma ultimately involves loss-- the loss of safety, the loss of innocence, the loss of "normalcy"-- & many trauma responses mirror stages of grief (denial/dissociation; anger/"fight;" bargaining/"fawn;" depression/"freeze" & "flop").
January 8, 2026 at 4:22 AM
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An underappreciated part of trauma recovery is discerning who is & isn't wasting our time w/ their "helpful" feedback & "support." Because not all feedback is helpful-- some can be quite toxic, actually-- & not all "support," no matter how well intended, is actually supportive.
January 8, 2026 at 4:21 AM
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My definition of a "safe" relationship is one in which you can show someone your real self without fearing-- or knowing-- it'll be used against you.

You'd think that wouldn't be too much to ask from someone who shares your name and/or DNA.
January 8, 2026 at 4:20 AM
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i wish u could Shazam smells
January 8, 2026 at 12:38 AM
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୧ ‧₊˚ Be careful on overdosing of emotions⋅ ☆

I WAS WAY TOO MOTIVATED TODAY LMAOOO, anyways!! I finished yayy! | Tags: #ghostandpals #palsart / @ghost-and-pals.bsky.social
January 6, 2026 at 11:59 PM
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arc is now twelve
yay
#palsart
January 7, 2026 at 6:50 PM
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+ Peace +

My ultimate comfort food is an oatmeal creme pie
acryl-gouache on pastelbord
January 7, 2026 at 2:36 PM
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Yes, coming to terms w/ grief takes time. But few people realize that the passing of time after a loss can itself feel panicky to survivors. We don't want to lose any more of our person or pet than we already have-- but we can't stop time from carrying us further away from them.
January 7, 2026 at 3:43 AM
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"Trauma bonds" form when we are forced to be dependent on a person or institution that is causing us pain-- & mentally forced to reconcile that dependence through denial, dissociation, or superficial identification w/ our abusers.

They're not a "choice." They're a mind f*ck.
January 7, 2026 at 3:42 AM
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The fact that there may not be anyone to straightforwardly blame for the pain or instability in our early life does not mean we don't get to acknowledge or resent the chaos we experienced.

"Fault" may be complicated-- & we STILL get to be angry, sad, or hurt.
January 7, 2026 at 3:41 AM
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Everyone reading this has at last one person in our life who feels entitled to ignore our boundaries-- often because they happen to share our name &/or DNA.

But maybe the fact someone is related to us actually means they should be more sensitive to our needs & limits, not less.
January 7, 2026 at 3:41 AM
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Growing up in a financially unstable household or w/ food or housing insecurity can absolutely be a complex traumatic stressor-- it happened over time, was functionally inescapable, & entwined w/ our important relationships.

No need to romanticize or minimize it.
January 7, 2026 at 3:40 AM
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For CPTSD survivors who have been gaslit & coerced, it's not as easy as "just trust yourself." It's not a simple, one time "decision." We're unwinding years of programming here-- & remember, the damage CPTSD inflicts is physical, not just mental.

Give yourself time.
January 7, 2026 at 3:40 AM
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#palsart hii, ill be posting this here rq, this one is from a friend, ill be letting their discord user here. Its: monte219, still, ill be doing commissions, #honeyimhome #charon #ghostandpals
January 6, 2026 at 2:47 PM
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WIP!!! trying to draw ghost's oc in nso style🥺🥺🥺 should I finish this🥀🥀 #ghostandpals #palsart
January 6, 2026 at 6:22 PM
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Ok everyone's posting their Slurpee drawings and i cant stay behind. Ok. This is really old and terrible but alr. Have this. #palsart #ghostandpals #gnpbsky
January 6, 2026 at 3:42 AM
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January 6, 2026 at 1:24 PM