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raw media on trust, sex + power.
modern masculinity. emotional confrontation.
for women who want to understand men 🖤
for men who dare to confront themselves ⚔️
modern masculinity. emotional confrontation.
for women who want to understand men 🖤
for men who dare to confront themselves ⚔️
she didn’t pull away from you.
she pulled away from the version of you that stopped feeling safe.
she lost trust.
she didn’t lose interest.
— author
she pulled away from the version of you that stopped feeling safe.
she lost trust.
she didn’t lose interest.
— author
December 11, 2025 at 12:18 AM
she didn’t pull away from you.
she pulled away from the version of you that stopped feeling safe.
she lost trust.
she didn’t lose interest.
— author
she pulled away from the version of you that stopped feeling safe.
she lost trust.
she didn’t lose interest.
— author
she doesn’t leave for attention.
she leaves for peace.
— author
she leaves for peace.
— author
December 9, 2025 at 12:41 AM
she doesn’t leave for attention.
she leaves for peace.
— author
she leaves for peace.
— author
be the change.
just not here.
misquote sunday, every sunday evening.
— author
just not here.
misquote sunday, every sunday evening.
— author
December 8, 2025 at 12:34 AM
be the change.
just not here.
misquote sunday, every sunday evening.
— author
just not here.
misquote sunday, every sunday evening.
— author
fortune cookie reject #14:
“you will soon get the clousre you seek.”
closure is overrated anyway.
the bad batch drops every sunday.
— cuffed
“you will soon get the clousre you seek.”
closure is overrated anyway.
the bad batch drops every sunday.
— cuffed
December 7, 2025 at 7:35 PM
fortune cookie reject #14:
“you will soon get the clousre you seek.”
closure is overrated anyway.
the bad batch drops every sunday.
— cuffed
“you will soon get the clousre you seek.”
closure is overrated anyway.
the bad batch drops every sunday.
— cuffed
🎮 cheat code: if you’re not crying in the gym,
you’re not training your soul.
— author
the saturday cheat code series.
for men who confuse trauma with discipline 🏋️♂️
you’re not training your soul.
— author
the saturday cheat code series.
for men who confuse trauma with discipline 🏋️♂️
December 7, 2025 at 1:55 AM
🎮 cheat code: if you’re not crying in the gym,
you’re not training your soul.
— author
the saturday cheat code series.
for men who confuse trauma with discipline 🏋️♂️
you’re not training your soul.
— author
the saturday cheat code series.
for men who confuse trauma with discipline 🏋️♂️
bad advice saturday no. 14 🥂
know your worth.
then date beneath it for the plot.
— cuffed
know your worth.
then date beneath it for the plot.
— cuffed
December 6, 2025 at 10:07 PM
bad advice saturday no. 14 🥂
know your worth.
then date beneath it for the plot.
— cuffed
know your worth.
then date beneath it for the plot.
— cuffed
unresolved men don’t date. they recruit caretakers.
most of what gets labeled “commitment issues” is actually emotional outsourcing.
men who never built themselves trying to be “loved” into stability.
this isn’t romance. it’s dependency dressed up as connection.
— author
most of what gets labeled “commitment issues” is actually emotional outsourcing.
men who never built themselves trying to be “loved” into stability.
this isn’t romance. it’s dependency dressed up as connection.
— author
December 6, 2025 at 6:30 PM
unresolved men don’t date. they recruit caretakers.
most of what gets labeled “commitment issues” is actually emotional outsourcing.
men who never built themselves trying to be “loved” into stability.
this isn’t romance. it’s dependency dressed up as connection.
— author
most of what gets labeled “commitment issues” is actually emotional outsourcing.
men who never built themselves trying to be “loved” into stability.
this isn’t romance. it’s dependency dressed up as connection.
— author
your type is “i can fix it.”
you cannot.
— author
you’re a lover, not a mechanic.
you cannot.
— author
you’re a lover, not a mechanic.
December 6, 2025 at 1:33 AM
your type is “i can fix it.”
you cannot.
— author
you’re a lover, not a mechanic.
you cannot.
— author
you’re a lover, not a mechanic.
☢️ fallout fridays ☢️
once the trust cracks,
the light never hits the same.
— author
once the trust cracks,
the light never hits the same.
— author
December 5, 2025 at 8:21 PM
☢️ fallout fridays ☢️
once the trust cracks,
the light never hits the same.
— author
once the trust cracks,
the light never hits the same.
— author
she didn’t want someone new.
she wanted the man you stopped being.
— author
she wanted the man you stopped being.
— author
December 3, 2025 at 11:46 PM
she didn’t want someone new.
she wanted the man you stopped being.
— author
she wanted the man you stopped being.
— author
she didn’t want someone new.
she wanted the man you stopped being.
— author
she wanted the man you stopped being.
— author
December 3, 2025 at 11:11 PM
she didn’t want someone new.
she wanted the man you stopped being.
— author
she wanted the man you stopped being.
— author
she didn’t lose interest.
she lost trust.
— author
she lost trust.
— author
December 3, 2025 at 1:57 AM
she didn’t lose interest.
she lost trust.
— author
she lost trust.
— author
m.55 is live.
it’s about the kind of family that loves you when it’s convenient
and disappears the moment you need something real.
if the holidays feel heavier than usual,
you’ll understand this one without trying.
— author
it’s about the kind of family that loves you when it’s convenient
and disappears the moment you need something real.
if the holidays feel heavier than usual,
you’ll understand this one without trying.
— author
December 2, 2025 at 10:09 PM
m.55 is live.
it’s about the kind of family that loves you when it’s convenient
and disappears the moment you need something real.
if the holidays feel heavier than usual,
you’ll understand this one without trying.
— author
it’s about the kind of family that loves you when it’s convenient
and disappears the moment you need something real.
if the holidays feel heavier than usual,
you’ll understand this one without trying.
— author
she didn’t fall out of love.
she fell out of trust.
most men think women leave suddenly.
they don’t.
they leave quietly…
after begging you in ways you never noticed.
if this hits, you already know why.
— author
she fell out of trust.
most men think women leave suddenly.
they don’t.
they leave quietly…
after begging you in ways you never noticed.
if this hits, you already know why.
— author
December 2, 2025 at 12:45 AM
she didn’t fall out of love.
she fell out of trust.
most men think women leave suddenly.
they don’t.
they leave quietly…
after begging you in ways you never noticed.
if this hits, you already know why.
— author
she fell out of trust.
most men think women leave suddenly.
they don’t.
they leave quietly…
after begging you in ways you never noticed.
if this hits, you already know why.
— author
dream big.
your job won’t.
misquote sunday, every sunday evening.
— author
your job won’t.
misquote sunday, every sunday evening.
— author
December 1, 2025 at 2:09 AM
dream big.
your job won’t.
misquote sunday, every sunday evening.
— author
your job won’t.
misquote sunday, every sunday evening.
— author
fortune cookie reject #13 — double drop.
“someone admires you.
from affar.”
two pulls today.
two angles.
same bad batch energy.
— cuffed
“someone admires you.
from affar.”
two pulls today.
two angles.
same bad batch energy.
— cuffed
November 30, 2025 at 11:19 PM
fortune cookie reject #13 — double drop.
“someone admires you.
from affar.”
two pulls today.
two angles.
same bad batch energy.
— cuffed
“someone admires you.
from affar.”
two pulls today.
two angles.
same bad batch energy.
— cuffed
cheat code no. 13:
for legal reasons, this is a joke.
for motivational reasons, it absolutely isn’t.
— author
for legal reasons, this is a joke.
for motivational reasons, it absolutely isn’t.
— author
November 30, 2025 at 12:05 AM
cheat code no. 13:
for legal reasons, this is a joke.
for motivational reasons, it absolutely isn’t.
— author
for legal reasons, this is a joke.
for motivational reasons, it absolutely isn’t.
— author
bad advice saturday no. 13 🥂
trust issues build character.
and better passwords.
— cuffed
trust issues build character.
and better passwords.
— cuffed
November 29, 2025 at 4:12 PM
bad advice saturday no. 13 🥂
trust issues build character.
and better passwords.
— cuffed
trust issues build character.
and better passwords.
— cuffed
if red flags burned calories,
you’d be shredded.
— author
your workout routine is called “giving people chances.”
you’d be shredded.
— author
your workout routine is called “giving people chances.”
November 29, 2025 at 2:09 AM
if red flags burned calories,
you’d be shredded.
— author
your workout routine is called “giving people chances.”
you’d be shredded.
— author
your workout routine is called “giving people chances.”
☢️ fallout fridays ☢️
you didn’t lose them in the blast.
you lost them in the denial that followed.
— author
you didn’t lose them in the blast.
you lost them in the denial that followed.
— author
November 28, 2025 at 10:03 PM
☢️ fallout fridays ☢️
you didn’t lose them in the blast.
you lost them in the denial that followed.
— author
you didn’t lose them in the blast.
you lost them in the denial that followed.
— author
she wasn’t asking for perfection.
she was asking for presence.
— author
save this + follow for more.
she was asking for presence.
— author
save this + follow for more.
November 28, 2025 at 2:42 AM
she wasn’t asking for perfection.
she was asking for presence.
— author
save this + follow for more.
she was asking for presence.
— author
save this + follow for more.
she didn’t want less. she wanted you to finally show up.
— author
— author
November 27, 2025 at 9:44 PM
she didn’t want less. she wanted you to finally show up.
— author
— author
the moment she breaks is always silent.
and always months before she walks.
musing no. 54 is live.
— author
and always months before she walks.
musing no. 54 is live.
— author
November 27, 2025 at 2:10 AM
the moment she breaks is always silent.
and always months before she walks.
musing no. 54 is live.
— author
and always months before she walks.
musing no. 54 is live.
— author
trust isn’t intimacy. it’s oxygen.
— author
follow us for more.
save this for the days you forget what real safety feels like.
— author
follow us for more.
save this for the days you forget what real safety feels like.
November 26, 2025 at 10:45 PM
trust isn’t intimacy. it’s oxygen.
— author
follow us for more.
save this for the days you forget what real safety feels like.
— author
follow us for more.
save this for the days you forget what real safety feels like.
she didn’t want more. she just wanted you to show up.
women don’t leave because they’re asking for “too much.”
they leave because men convince them they’re asking for the impossible.
— author
women don’t leave because they’re asking for “too much.”
they leave because men convince them they’re asking for the impossible.
— author
November 26, 2025 at 12:32 AM
she didn’t want more. she just wanted you to show up.
women don’t leave because they’re asking for “too much.”
they leave because men convince them they’re asking for the impossible.
— author
women don’t leave because they’re asking for “too much.”
they leave because men convince them they’re asking for the impossible.
— author