Another dating guideline: we are no longer doing the emotional and mental labor. Be intentional about getting to know me - ie ask questions and show real interest in who I am beyond date 2. It’s a given that if he doesn’t ask questions on date 1 we’re out immediately.

Implementing a new dating guideline: if I get to date 5 with a man, and he hasn’t brought me flowers or surprised me with idk a coffee or some kind of small and sweet gesture, I’m out.

My total confusion at the feral hype for Moana and Wicked when Anora is in theaters at the same time 😩

So cptsd feels like you’re a magnet but as soon as you get close to someone you pull an uno reverse and become the wrong side of the magnet. Over and over forever. Love this for us 🥰 #cptsd #cptsdhealing