Yes but I’m not turned on BY prepping per se. It’s the fact that I’m “playing” with my hole. Also when I’m turned on my hole relaxes which makes prepping easier, so I’ll read and watch porn while I prep.

Face honestly, but:

There is an urgency in your posts that is missing in your speech. Now I read your posts in your actual voice, but before the cruise you “sounded different” in your posts.

What I wouldn’t give to watch this happen!

I’ve seen this happen a lot to new subs, they want the full experience so badly that they forget to wait and see if the Dom is worthy of their trust and respect. You know that saying about respect needing to be given to be received? It goes both ways. Otherwise it’s just abuse in a nice wrapping.

Any Dom worth his spit will start by meeting the sub where the sub is; and teaching them that it’s safe to submit. The Dom will take submission incrementally so that the sub always feels safe enough to take the next step toward freedom, er, total submission I mean.

Getting naked BEFORE the long hike is fun too. 😉