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daddysnowkitty.bsky.social
Mister Shadow
@daddysnowkitty.bsky.social
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An adult on the internet with a particularly spotty reputation.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 1d
It's funny, but there are an unusually high number of people who want me to get them naked on a bed so I can touch them in scandalous places, but with absolutely no desire for sex involved. Being a caretaker in ABDL spaces and giving diaper changes is kinda wild when you really think about it.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 2d
Honestly the framing on this is super well done. You have to look at it a few times to really catch all the detail and layers.
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Caled @kit-stripes.bsky.social · 6d
With summer being over I might be a bit behind uploading this pic, but its still one of my favs!

Causing problems at the beach with @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social, who doesn't seem to mind >//>
Shadow teasing Caled for not having appropriate swim wear. Looks like he should have gotten in a swim diaper before jumping in!
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 18d
After BFC, let me just say thanks to everyone who took the time to say hi and especially to everyone who helped make me feel included. Sadly I didn't really get to attend any of the events I wanted to this year, so I'm sorry to the friends who were running panels, I wish I could have stopped by.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 29d
To be clear, this isn't a dig at anyone who does so this. As long as everyone's consenting and informed, that's fine. Just my personal take.

Which really applies to anything I post. No shade intended, opinions are my own, not facts, etc.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · 29d
So while I've occasionally joked about charging for babysitting services like bedtime stories, changes, all that good stuff, in all honesty the idea is pretty uncomfortable for me. Caretaking is all about the emotional connection for me, and faking that for cash just would not work for me at all.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 9
Tugging on a sleeve and plaintive eyes can say a lot.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 9
...I have no idea what this means.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 8
Feel free to say hi!
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 8
Good thing we'll be confiscating any big kitten undies you have the second you get to BFC.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 8
A quick word of advice for folks looking for attention from caretakers: Sometimes you're gonna have to make the first move. I know that's tough and scary, but us Big types can't always tell if folks are interested, so a polite introduction to see if there's maybe mutual interest can be helpful.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 8
Oh no, hopefully you can make it work somehow. What book is it?
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 8
Oh, don't forget to give love to the original here: www.furaffinity.net/view/24793151/
Shadow changing Caled by Hokkigai
*yaaaaaawns* I didn't make it again, 40 minutes passed midnight. Punctuality is not my strong suit it seems. Anyway here it is! Com ...
www.furaffinity.net
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 8
Clean up your room!
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 7
It's cute how some boys never grow out of blushing during a diaper change any more than they grow out of their diapers. Good thing Mister Shadow is all about making the Littles he babysits comfortable even in these tender moments.

🦊: @kit-stripes.bsky.social
🎨: www.furaffinity.net/user/hokkigai
Two anthro characters, both adults, are in frame. In the foreground, a cape fox with striped fur patterns on his arms and ears, a pattern of twin arrows circling his neck and angling down his chest, jester's tears under his eyes, and a crown on the bridge of his nose and on his tail. Just past the fox is a snow leopard with a shock of white at the front of his otherwise black hair. The cape fox is laying out on top of a changing table in full profile, while looking up at the snow leopard and blushing, while he wears nothing but a diaper while suckling on a pacifier. The snow leopard is dressed casually, and cheerfully reassuring the cape fox as he change's the fox's diaper. The background of the image shows a cozy looking nursery, with all the furniture sized for the cape fox, who is clearly not acting his age but is all the happier for it.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 6
Everyone has their own comfort zone, and this community is at its best when we support one another despite the different ways we express ourselves and find validation and safety. So whether you're just curious about ABDL or you've been here for years, let's give everyone room to experiment and grow.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 6
If people like to wear diapers but don't want to use them? That's fine! Want to use them for some things and not others? You do you! Some people just want to cuddle plushies and watch cartoons and never touch a diaper at all, and that's valid. Still others just want the diapers, no kiddo stuff.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 6
Once again, the A in ABDL stands for adult, which means accepting that adults like different things. Please don't try to tell people that they "have to" express an interest in this kink or community in the same way you do. It's fine to give people a safe space to explore, but don't force things.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 5
Keep your friends close, and your bratty delinquent raccoon friends closer. You can see me demonstrating here with Strut, who managed to behave the whole time I was giving him uppies, at least until I had to put him down again.

🦝: @nite.bsky.social
📸: @smallishwolf.bsky.social

#fursuitfriday
One fursuiter, a snow leopard, has picked up a second, a raccoon, in an outdoor environment surrounded by other fursuiters. It's really cute, I promise.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 4
Oh yeah I'm gonna be at @babyfurcon.com next week, who am I gonna see there?
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 4
Part of the reason I bring this up is that it's not always obvious that you've had a profound impact on people's lives, happiness, and sense of self worth. So even if it feels like the good you try to do, (even in a kink community) goes unseen, you can be helping people more than you realize.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 4
Some of the most humbling, and fulfilling, moments I've had as a caretaker have been when people let me know that something I've done or said has helped them experience a Little headspace despite anxiety or self consciousness. Those are huge hurdles for many people and it feels really good to help.
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 3
Kitten*
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 3
This looks really nice, Kiba!
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Mister Shadow @daddysnowkitty.bsky.social · Sep 3
Caretaker Tip: Don't be afraid to interrupt your Little's gaming session for a diaper check or change. It's a good reminder of what they're wearing and of their real age even if you let them pay big kid games.

Bonus points for loudly announcing what you're doing so any friends on voice know, too.
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