I don't know if cruising culture has been compromised by the apps or something, but some folks at my gym that need to learn what a "no" looks like. Not "try again tomorrow," not "wag your dick at me until I look," not "follow me from the sauna to the shower." It's no. Good luck, leave me alone.

I'm sorry, did my @grindr.bsky.social just play a brief snippet of Christina Aguilera?

To the jacked 20-something man doing landscaping down the block: I have no plans today, and I'm on PrEP. Let me know when your lunch break is.

I'm seriously going to go full Blanche Devereaux on this guy.

Why is every alt description on here like, "Hung idiot muscle top himbo who pushes on pull doors. Free Palestine"?

And why do I watch all their content?

Short list of things I've been called:

Daddy
Dad
Coach
King
Sir
Papi
Papasito

I have no complaints about any of these.