Fair enough. I've only seen this dynamic in older folks relationships.
Where they should have left each other years ago but didn't. He's usually in bad health or bad financial standing and she's there just because. Haven't seen this in anyone younger than 50.

What do you consider a mean woman? I ask because in my experience what people call mean for women usually is just a woman that suffers no fools, takes no shit and sets hard boundaries

Hell had he just heeded those loud ass "popping" noises he'd still be alive. Those were terrifying.

What Musk truly seems to be saying is that Americans need to be worker peasants for the few wealthy overlords, instead of having the chance to pursue a life of intellectual enrichment, health, and happiness. Honestly, who wants their children to become miners? Nobody, not even actual miners!