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Admiral Restraint
@darkneverland.bsky.social
|they/them| • compassionate weirdo alive in the Superuknown • personal & edutainment • #DFTBA

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Mutual Aid: paypal.me/doseofnightshade
(DM me for Zelle)
BlessED Solar Return
January 23, 2026 at 4:07 AM
TY friend. I'm less sad at the moment & more overwhelmed & exhausted.
January 21, 2026 at 8:04 PM
Still needing help; I have the appt with the arrange tomorrow to figure out what all I'm gonna do & having as much funds as possible seems like a good plan. Thank you to those that have donated & shared.
January 21, 2026 at 8:03 PM
Reposted by Admiral Restraint
If you want to give directly &/or the kind of person who is "f*ck crowdfunding fees":
paypal.me/doseofnightshade
and I also have Zelle, just DM for email or phone...I'm not just putting that info out there
January 20, 2026 at 3:27 AM
If you want to give directly &/or the kind of person who is "f*ck crowdfunding fees":
paypal.me/doseofnightshade
and I also have Zelle, just DM for email or phone...I'm not just putting that info out there
January 20, 2026 at 3:27 AM
Yeah, I sorta fell into the other one so I don't really know what to do to build one digitally, here or otherwise. I'm not digital or tech savvy; I struggle with in-person too but that's so much easier b/c there's one less barrier.
January 6, 2026 at 12:20 PM
*left a list
January 6, 2026 at 11:10 AM
that's why I left my other places; i just don't know how to interact on here and i forget it exists and it's a hassle to cross-post and I just feel like I'm using the site wrong and it's accumulating that it doesn't have to be. *deep sigh* I'm not making any sense out loud/visually...
January 6, 2026 at 11:09 AM
I'll leave this up for a day or two, just in case. I think I'm honestly seeking regular like-community camaraderie and conversation but where they're the most concentrated and I am spreading myself too thin across all the interweb places. *deep sigh* IDK...exhausted just isn't a strong enough word
January 6, 2026 at 11:00 AM
And I also find that with horror specifically, oftentimes when I at least am talking to people about things that fall under this genre they're coming from one specific vein that is a subtype I'm completely not into but it's very prevalent in regards to movies and TV
January 5, 2026 at 7:35 AM
I think it partially comes from my own special interests but also working at Tower records and borders where even if they were filed physically somewhere specific, in our systems there would be multiple labels.
January 5, 2026 at 7:32 AM
For me it's (not specifically Alien but whatever the thing is) not that it stops being horror, it's more I categorize it under something else first and then because that's my frame of reference I forget that technically there's a lot of things that fall under the horror genre
January 5, 2026 at 7:31 AM
I honestly don't understand how the special interest feed things work at all and it's very overwhelming to search information and read about them because I don't understand what I'm reading. Maybe when this platform has been abandoned for a new one I'll eventually get it all 🫩😅
January 5, 2026 at 7:29 AM
If I was mostly responding because it's nice to have definitive proof there's at least one other person out there who is hard to watch movies with besides myself
January 5, 2026 at 7:26 AM
Trying to learn how the hell the search features work here on Bluesky but I'm on here so infrequently cuz there's seemingly not a lot of you I was friends with on Twitter that migrated over here.

Okay...this has become me shooting down ideas b/c of the "bad" parts of my Muchness...
January 5, 2026 at 7:26 AM
I guess I need to do some random internet search for my genres but honestly I don't think I'll remember. Broadly speaking, I don't watch horror b/c the specifics of things I watch that fall under the horror I don't immediately think of aa falling under that genre.
January 5, 2026 at 7:22 AM
I mean more that I don't have the following so me live-tweeting about my Highlander series rewatch isn't a huge concern regarding spoilers.

I'm chronically online and yet completely disconnected at the same time and I don't know how to fix or change that...the disconnection part
January 5, 2026 at 7:17 AM
If someone else is the first time watch I will be more careful but maaaan would love to do a watch party with folks
January 5, 2026 at 7:15 AM
I mean honestly part of the reason I got on social media and the first place was cuz I realized I needed a stream of consciousness space, especially for my media thoughts... Which almost always are about things that are either really old or kind of niche so not a lot of people have seen them.
January 5, 2026 at 7:12 AM
And again unless it's particularly egregious and or something repetitive, I try and find one thing that can sustain me through an episode or movie. But also I contain monkeys so there are lots of things I like that I also take umbrage with on certain things *glares at series finale of Lucifer*
January 5, 2026 at 7:08 AM
So it could be like you really like their shoes or they have a really neat laugh or something really innocuous that helps keep the space of engagement open because even with really solid therapeutic rapport sometimes the client will 'try us as clinicians cuz we're all still human
January 5, 2026 at 7:07 AM