By the way. Thank you for trying to hold light instead of heat. Perhaps we are closer in our world view than we know. I recommend this article as a balm for those trying to heal, and those trying to help. open.substack.com/pub/johnpavl...

I’m sorry you feel attacked, but you’re basically suggesting to an abused spouse the best thing they can do is return home and really try to make it work.

You sound like Neville Chamberlain. History shows us talking with Nazis doesn’t work.