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Shoujoseinen freak, danmei enjoyer, fan of music for old people and teenagers (^q^) (^q^) (^q^) zionists die
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Ideally, for me to like a manga I want to feel like one of the following.
November 11, 2025 at 1:50 PM
Ideally, for me to like a manga I want to feel like one of the following.
3) THAT'S MY OOMFIE
October 10, 2025 at 4:17 AM
3) THAT'S MY OOMFIE
2) Again, another incredibly obvious choice here.
October 9, 2025 at 1:40 PM
2) Again, another incredibly obvious choice here.
1) If I don't put these women at the top of the list I've been killed and replaced by an impostor
October 9, 2025 at 1:10 PM
1) If I don't put these women at the top of the list I've been killed and replaced by an impostor
(Covered in blood) You guys should read Emerald Midnight's Lover it makes me feel so normal haha
October 7, 2025 at 12:03 AM
(Covered in blood) You guys should read Emerald Midnight's Lover it makes me feel so normal haha
Listen. Even better if it's jackets with fox fur trim.
September 17, 2025 at 12:40 AM
Listen. Even better if it's jackets with fox fur trim.
![The ritual principles of separation or differentiation were front and center
in Ban Zhao’s advice. While characterizing the husband-and-wife relationship as “managing the wife” and “serving the husband,” she emphasized the
importance of moral integrity for both. She wrote, “If the husband is not virtuous, then he will have nothing [i.e., no moral authority] to manage his
wife; if the wife is not virtuous, then she will not have what it takes to serve
her husband.” How should a woman serve her husband? Serving begins with
her vigilance about her own manner and bodily conduct. She should be “sol
emn in appearance,” “dignified in conduct,” and “wholehearted in devotion”
(zheng se, duan cao, zhuan xin). She must be “respectful and vigilant” (jing
shen) and avoid behavior that may seem “loose,” such as listening to gossip or
looking at improper things, leaning in doorways to look outside, dressing ostentatiously, wearing unkempt hair, or going out in an affectedly attractive
manner. She must be constantly patrolling her own manners and actions.](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:2aif4phw6hke5gtyjspmm73b/bafkreigk7e2exrxcfnnnhmpmhg44va757a6fryzds6iwy5lxibowkx7vza@jpeg)
![The manner in which husband and wife interacted had serious consequences for their relationship. The bedroom was an especially vulnerable site
where the marital relationship could sour. “The affection between husband
and wife is such that they can never be estranged. If husband and wife constantly stay together in their room, they will develop improper intimacy and
casual behavior [xiedu]. In that situation, improper words will be spoken,
which will lead to unrestrained actions. Out of unrestrained actions will arise
thoughts insulting to the husband. All this comes from not knowing when to
stop and be satisfied,” noted Ban Zhao. She went on to reason that arguments
between husband and wife would lead to disputes and anger saying, “This is
because she does not know to be humble and yielding. If she insults her husband and does not control herself, [his] scolding and chastisement will follow; when anger is not stopped, [his] beating will follow.”](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:2aif4phw6hke5gtyjspmm73b/bafkreibwl3zegskzgacwqsascozneduwufhs7ftc2t7ki3hddr5smetp4e@jpeg)
![cause them to let their guard down, leading to interactions that transgress
the husband-wife boundary. Improper intimacy, therefore, is the cause of a
marriage collapsing. Ban Zhao did not delegitimize or trivialize the affection between husband and wife. In fact, she considered it vital for the marital relationship. “For husband and wife, yi [honor-bound duty] is to enhance
endearment, and en [affection, love] is to forge congeniality. Should actual
blows be dealt, how could yi be preserved? Should sharp words be spoken,
how could en exist? If both en and yi are gone, husband and wife are
estranged.”](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:2aif4phw6hke5gtyjspmm73b/bafkreigz3salh36szknxdl2pbpjboboklpfhrngj5zzp4qcbaaty25leea@jpeg)
Text taken from Weijing Lu's Arranged Companions, about marital ideals in Qing Dynasty China!
July 3, 2025 at 11:13 PM
Text taken from Weijing Lu's Arranged Companions, about marital ideals in Qing Dynasty China!
I got deer. Wouldn't say it's accurate
February 12, 2025 at 2:50 PM
I got deer. Wouldn't say it's accurate
If u've seen this anime ikyk but this is the actual Bingliushen dynamic (also very sexy AU idea 👁)
December 2, 2024 at 1:32 PM
If u've seen this anime ikyk but this is the actual Bingliushen dynamic (also very sexy AU idea 👁)
My favorite Nakano Broadway find <333 (aside from the incredibly cheap Gatchaman Crowds doujinshis)
November 23, 2024 at 1:38 AM
My favorite Nakano Broadway find <333 (aside from the incredibly cheap Gatchaman Crowds doujinshis)
Liu Qingge is like these two to me. Peak guard dog who is very good at killing.
October 22, 2024 at 12:07 AM
Liu Qingge is like these two to me. Peak guard dog who is very good at killing.
