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DelLeandrin
@delleand.bsky.social
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Swiss aromantic-asexual agender person (no - any pronouns). 🏳️‍🌈⚧️ Fighting the gender binary, cisheteronormativity, compulsory sexuality, fascism & the patriarchies. Constantly learning.
I love books, plants, music & being on stage (theatre + singing)
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Auch wenn ich schon seit dem 22.8.2025 zurück aus Schottland bin, ein Teil von mir ist immer noch dort.
Edinburgh Castle vor düsterem Himmel mit entzündeten Fackeln und Schottland-Flagge. Davor fliegt eine Möwe. Abendstimmung mit Blick auf den River Ness. Zu beiden Seiten des Flusses sind Gebäude von Inverness zu sehen, beispielsweise zwei Kirchtürme auf der rechten Seite. Eine Brücke überspannt den Fluss in einiger Entfernung. Blick auf den Strand von Aberdeen und dahinter die Nordsee. Im Vordergrund befindet sich ein halb verblühtes Feld von Disteln Blick auf einen Zufluss vom Loch Linnhe in Fort William mit zwei Inseln im Fluss, einer Uferlandschaft dahinter und Häusern im Hintergrund, die direkt unter einer sanft geschwungenen Hügellandschaft liegen.
September 1, 2025 at 10:27 AM
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Source: analytic-alchemist: The True Bi/Pan/Poly/Ace Agenda - Try not to get yelled at by straight people for not being straight - Try not to get yelled at by gay people for not being gay - Make sure no one finds out that we're secretly dragons
July 22, 2025 at 11:03 AM
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Your boundaries are not making you lose friends or family members. Your boundaries are making you lose gaslighters, emotional abusers, needy and greedy manipulators, self-centered narcissists and energy draining vampires. Keep standing for yourself, You're doing great, keep going.
July 18, 2025 at 5:41 PM
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Von rechts wird Symbolpolitik auf dem Rücken von Kindern betrieben. Kinder sind echte Menschen. Mit echten Rechten. Mit echten Gefühlen. Echten Bedürfnissen. Echtem Willen. Echter, eigener Identität und dem Recht, diese selber zu bestimmen und zu leben. Redet nicht über trans Kinder. Hört ihnen zu.
Buchcover von Queer Kids von Christina Caprez, mit 15 Porträts. Auf dem Cover ist ein junger Mensch abgebildet, beide Hände hinten an den Kopf gelegt, mit festem, selbstbewusstem und doch humorvollem Blick in die Kamera schauend, in einem rosa Pullover mit rotem Sujet, von dem vor allem zwei nackte Füsse und Beine zu erkennen sind. Die Ohren zieren zwei Echsen, im von der Betrachterseite linken Ohr ist sie rosa, im rechten blau.
July 7, 2025 at 10:13 PM
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You don't have to want kids You don't have to get married You don't have to be in a relationship You don't have to be monogamous You don't have to like or want sex You don't have to be straight You don't have to be a man or woman You don't have to hate being single You don't have to shave anything You don't have to stay with him You don't have to be someone else YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIVE BY OTHER'S STANDARDS
June 29, 2025 at 1:02 PM
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No matter what they do, we'll never forget these queens.
Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera at Pride March, 1989. Marsha is wearing many red flowers in her hair, a yellow dress and has a blue bag with her. Sylvia wears a black dress with a badge. They both wear purple ribbons with 'Stonewall' written on them. Marsha has her arm layed around Sylvias neck, Sylvia has one arm stretched out showing off a victory sign
June 27, 2025 at 3:44 PM
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This is me at my very first pride march. Back then I joined as an ally. I wanted to support people to love whoever they love and have sex with whomever they wanted. At the same time I felt so insecure. I've never had sex. And I was afraid people would judge me for it.
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Bad quality picture of me with long brown hair, wearing colourful trousers (mainly in red tones), a pink Beatles bag, pink shirt and a black vest, looking quite uncomfortable in a large crowd gathering for a Pride march
June 21, 2025 at 7:46 AM
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The not-so-well-known queer flag
Pink and blue stripes represent same-gender attraction
orange and green stripes represent non-binary and gender non-confirming individuals
black and white stripes represent asexual, aromantic, and the agender community
The queer flag: a black stripe on top, followed by light blue, darker blue, light green, white, yellow, salmon, light pink and black again
June 11, 2025 at 1:57 PM
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Heftige Buchempfehlung! Bin knapp in der Hälfte angelangt und muss das Buch immer wieder weglegen, um gewisse Dinge sacken zu lassen. Für mich kommt das Buch gerade richtig, in eine Zeit, in der ich mich frage: "Was ist eigentlich los?" sagt mir das Buch, was los ist und vor allem, warum.
Buchcover von 'Identitätskrise' von Alice Hasters aus dem hanserblau Verlag, versehen mit dem Kleber 'Spiegel Bestseller-Autorin'
June 11, 2025 at 12:20 PM
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Aromantic-Asexual-Agender-Flag. The AroAce Sunset Flag merged with the agender flag (orange stripe on top, followed by yellow, then white, a light green bar in the middle, followed by a white stripe, then light blue and at the bottom a darker blue).
June 10, 2025 at 6:08 PM
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Encouraging someone to be entirely themselves is the loudest way to love them Kalen Dion
June 4, 2025 at 3:27 PM
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Selbstbestimmung für mich bedeutet auch, dass ich nicht gut aussehen muss. Ich muss nicht hübsch sein. Ich muss niemandem gefallen. Ich muss gar nichts.
Ich selber bin total ok mit mir, und das reicht mir.
In a society that profits from your self doubt, liking yourself is a rebellious act
June 1, 2025 at 3:18 PM
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Frequently Asked Questions About Cisgender People Cisgender people are just like you and me, except they believe their "assigned sex at birth" matches up with their "gender identity." How do they know they are cis? Many cis people feel like they "know" their gender internally. They feel they were "born in the right body", even if others don't understand. Who is going to date them? Though cisgender people can have a hard time meeting partners, they are still able to have healthy relatonships. Often, cis people will date other cis people. How do they have sex? Cisgender people can be very inventive with their bodies. But they don't look cis! Cisgender people are everywhere. They might not look the way that you expect!
May 31, 2025 at 7:23 PM
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It's never about being confused. It's always thinking their idea of me is more important than my true identity.
I don't really understand how people who were young in the 80s act so confused about different gender identities and expressions when the celebrities of their time looked like this Followed by pictures of Grace Jones, Boy George, Prince and Annie Lennox in looks people might perceive as androgynous
May 27, 2025 at 7:55 PM
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Picture of an angel aka person wearing a wide white gown and has large white wings and there are doves flying around accompanied by a text that says: Every time you say "woke" a gay angel creates another drag queen
May 25, 2025 at 10:11 AM
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People assume gender is a strict progression of male to female but actually, from a non-binary, non-judgemental viewpoint it's more like a big ball of wibbly-wobbly gendery-bendery... stuff.
May 15, 2025 at 5:48 PM
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Meme by Selah Wayseer: An old picture showing a person wearing no pants. "Sorry I took my pants off at your gender reveal party. I thought we were all participating"
May 11, 2025 at 6:04 PM
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Cis people will literally call a car 'she' and then claim pronouns are about biological reality
May 10, 2025 at 4:55 PM
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A small reminder that I am not broken, I do not need to be fixed because allosexuality is not the default setting. I am perfectly fine the way I am and I am feeling great. I am happy living my life without sex (which I don't want, that's why I'm not having it) and I am enjoying it very much.
Graphic by @StraightUpAsexual: Why I'm asexual: A purple circle. Next to it there are boxes in colours for options: Light blue: "I'm ugly, and just 'can't get any" Light green: "I haven't met the right person yet." Orange: "I'm a 'late bloomer'." Red: "I'm afraid of sex" Purple: "Because I was born not feeling sexual attraction"
May 6, 2025 at 5:40 PM
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My gender identity (or lack thereof) is political. Everyone thinks they are entitled to have an opinion on it and the identities of my queer siblings and whether we're 'a real thing', we should be allowed to be who we are etc.

We're not an opinion. We are who we are. End of the discussion.
On a progress pride flag background: May you never know the fear of having your human rights challenged every time there is an election. And may you never know the pain of watching loved ones vote against your right to exist fully, equally and authentically.
April 30, 2025 at 9:07 AM
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Bewegtes Bild von 4GIFS.com: Ein grosses Opossum läuft voll beladen mit sieben bis acht Jungtieren über sowohl Wiese wie auch steinigen Untergrund
April 25, 2025 at 7:40 PM
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Asking you to give me EQUAL RIGHTS implies they are yours to give. Instead, I must demand that you stop trying to deny me the rights all people deserve.
April 25, 2025 at 2:08 PM
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clothes have no gender haircuts have no gender video games have no gender makeup has no gender sometimes, people have no gender don't constrict yourself with labels and do what makes you happy.
April 23, 2025 at 7:13 PM
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Meme by GodOverMe.com: A white Jesus is talking to a group of people. "LOVE EVERYONE. NO MATTER WHAT." Another person: "What if they have tattoos?" Jesus: "YES, EVEN IF THEY ASK STUPID QUESTIONS"
April 20, 2025 at 9:58 PM
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On the picture there's a white-skinned Jesus holding a guitar. Above it it says: Here's a little tune I wrote called "Stop Screaming My Name During Sex Jessica".
April 20, 2025 at 4:07 PM