I know I said I'd prob be cis if I could detransition fully to a point I was happy with it, but that wouldn't stop me from having a complex gender and very confusing dysphoria lol

I've thought abt this a lot bc I feel like I have to be cis by technicality, and cause so many have insisted I must be cis, but I'm genderqueer and non cis and that's final

hopefully they'll add that eventually, I'd love to have a blue sky gc

this is a /j but I do believe fat is a compliment

fully agree, I wish mental health was taken as seriously as physical health (not discounting ableism, but there can be less moralizing and shaming of symptoms. mental health is seen as 100% your fault a lot of the time)

and it's so embarrassing to admit bc it feels like it makes me a terrible person but it's intrusive feelings and thoughts that I wish I didn't have. now I'm a lot more like "you go girl" when I see happy fat ppl as I'm working towards empowering myself

like let's be honest having an ed will cause so many ppl to have horrible intrusive thoughts about themselves and other people. the amount of times I felt angry at another fat person for simply being happy at their weight is more than I'd like to admit

if you chase it aggressively enough you may be able to get your acc back. I got banned for impersonating myself and they made me never use my face again but I still got my acc back

maybe I'm crazy but I always saw tubthumping as an innuendo already lol

like I'm genuinely delusional about how my body looks and have genuine bdd but not every negative emotion I have about my body is my fault. if you were constantly made to feel bad about yourself you'd wish to be different too.

like would you tell a gay person who wants to be straight that they're inherently homophobic or have some "doesn't wanna be gay" mental disorder? maybe they're just fed up with the treatment they receive and wish they fit in more, it doesn't make them bigoted or delusional

why am I zooming in trying to guess the function of every object 😭

maybe I'll just post my crochet content on here for the time being idk :3

grilled brie with arugula onion jam and apple slices. hands down best grilled cheese ever. and it comes with fries

that yarn bowl is genius and so beautiful !!