You always sit in the exact same way? Don't you shift around a bit?

I have one. I start it, then go to the bar. Two hours later it lets me know it's done, and that I've probably had enough to drink. I go home and empty it. Sad. And alone.

This is my favorite debate. Using your vernacular have you ever seen a restaurant that has BOTH a chicken burger, and chicken sandwich? No, you haven't. Shut up. If it's important, don't shut up, and ask the person taking the order.

Is this loss?

And don't believe me, read a paper on it.

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC...

Psychologists talk about this in terms of shame (external) versus guilt (internal). Western societies are odd in that they are very guilt driven. Most cultures are more shame driven. My point is that it's actually very normal to not experience that much guilt. 🤷‍♂️