Becky Whetstone Ph.D.
@doctorbecky.bsky.social
Author, blogger, Marriage & Family Therapist, Gold Star Mom, relationship guru.
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Donald Trump, King of the Dry Drunks.
And it Ain't About the Alcohol, or Lack Thereof.
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December 26, 2025 at 6:17 PM
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Enjoy Chapter Two of my latest book, The Congressman's Wife, a memoir about my five years married to a U.S. Congressman from San Antonio. If you like juicy, you'll like this! Available only on Substack @TheCongressmansWife.
December 26, 2025 at 6:17 PM
Enjoy Chapter Two of my latest book, The Congressman's Wife, a memoir about my five years married to a U.S. Congressman from San Antonio. If you like juicy, you'll like this! Available only on Substack @TheCongressmansWife.
Enjoy Chapter Two of my latest book, The Congressman's Wife, a memoir about my five years married to a U.S. Congressman from San Antonio. If you like juicy, you'll like this! Available only on Substack @TheCongressmansWife.
December 18, 2025 at 8:47 AM
Enjoy Chapter Two of my latest book, The Congressman's Wife, a memoir about my five years married to a U.S. Congressman from San Antonio. If you like juicy, you'll like this! Available only on Substack @TheCongressmansWife.
Enjoy Chapter Two of my latest book, The Congressman's Wife, a memoir about my five years married to a U.S. Congressman from San Antonio. If you like juicy, you'll like this! Available only on Substack @TheCongressmansWife.
December 17, 2025 at 7:08 PM
Enjoy Chapter Two of my latest book, The Congressman's Wife, a memoir about my five years married to a U.S. Congressman from San Antonio. If you like juicy, you'll like this! Available only on Substack @TheCongressmansWife.
The number one thing clients complain about is communication difficulties. Here is what I teach them ... medium.com/@doctorbecky...
December 6, 2025 at 3:51 PM
The number one thing clients complain about is communication difficulties. Here is what I teach them ... medium.com/@doctorbecky...
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We had an amazing experience on the Let's Talk Midlife Crisis Podcast! Our discussion naturally centered on marriage and navigating midlife challenges. Check it out: www.buzzsprout.com/2249230/epis...
We had an amazing experience on the Let's Talk Midlife Crisis Podcast! Our discussion naturally centered on marriage and navigating midlife challenges. Check it out: www.buzzsprout.com/2249230/epis...
Marriage in Crisis: Navigating the Breaking Point with Dr Becky - Let's Talk Midlife Crisis Podcast
Marriages don't typically fail overnight—they deteriorate through predictable stages that, when recognized early, could save countless relationships. Dr. Becky Whetstone, marriage counselor and…
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December 1, 2025 at 3:56 PM
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We had an amazing experience on the Let's Talk Midlife Crisis Podcast! Our discussion naturally centered on marriage and navigating midlife challenges. Check it out: www.buzzsprout.com/2249230/epis...
We had an amazing experience on the Let's Talk Midlife Crisis Podcast! Our discussion naturally centered on marriage and navigating midlife challenges. Check it out: www.buzzsprout.com/2249230/epis...
Come meet with me for half an hour and see if we're fit! Whether your marriage is struggling, you're separated, planning to divorce, or need co-parenting or stepfamily guidance, I can help. We aim to take the nasty out of all of it. Don't do it alone.
November 24, 2025 at 4:51 PM
Come meet with me for half an hour and see if we're fit! Whether your marriage is struggling, you're separated, planning to divorce, or need co-parenting or stepfamily guidance, I can help. We aim to take the nasty out of all of it. Don't do it alone.
I'm in despair about how nuts the right has gone over the Charlie Kirk assassination. The bullying, demonizing, and attempting to destroy lives.
September 16, 2025 at 2:15 AM
I'm in despair about how nuts the right has gone over the Charlie Kirk assassination. The bullying, demonizing, and attempting to destroy lives.
What on earth is going to happen to America? I wish I could fast forward and get past this part of the movie.
June 11, 2025 at 11:19 AM
What on earth is going to happen to America? I wish I could fast forward and get past this part of the movie.
I annoyed a high profile Trumpie on Twitter, he did a whole video diatribe about me the next day, and since then, hundreds of MAGA bullies and mean girls have infiltrated every corner of my social media - voicemail - with abusive, horrible remarks & ratings. They are dangerous & shameless.
May 21, 2025 at 11:50 AM
I annoyed a high profile Trumpie on Twitter, he did a whole video diatribe about me the next day, and since then, hundreds of MAGA bullies and mean girls have infiltrated every corner of my social media - voicemail - with abusive, horrible remarks & ratings. They are dangerous & shameless.
I went back to nasty old Twitter after a hiatus and got beat up, bullied, and blistered for commenting positively about democrat stuff and calling out a few liars for the blatant, ridiculous, non-truths. These nuts say they are waiting for democrats to get violent so the civil war can begin.
April 6, 2025 at 9:09 PM
I went back to nasty old Twitter after a hiatus and got beat up, bullied, and blistered for commenting positively about democrat stuff and calling out a few liars for the blatant, ridiculous, non-truths. These nuts say they are waiting for democrats to get violent so the civil war can begin.
If you think your family or parent are pretty perfect , you need to read this.
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A Fantasy Bond With A Parent is a Set-up for Disaster.
How and Why Idealized Relationships Sabotage Our Lives.
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March 12, 2025 at 2:03 AM
If you think your family or parent are pretty perfect , you need to read this.
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If a child was being attacked by another and asked for help, also, knowing if you didn’t help, the attacker would keep attacking others, would you help them? Are there any circumstances where you would shame or bully the child who needed help? What would you think of someone who did?
March 2, 2025 at 9:13 PM
If a child was being attacked by another and asked for help, also, knowing if you didn’t help, the attacker would keep attacking others, would you help them? Are there any circumstances where you would shame or bully the child who needed help? What would you think of someone who did?
I give great advice about marriage . medium.com/@doctorbecky...
The Five Winning and Losing Strategies of Marriage.
Terry Real’s Relationship Winning Strategies for Couples.
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February 24, 2025 at 3:24 PM
I give great advice about marriage . medium.com/@doctorbecky...
I'm in San Antonio and will be at the famous Twig Bookstore at the Pearl Brewery tomorrow from 11 to 1 signing books! Yes, it's cold, but my book will warm up you up! Please drop by and say hello! We're simply trying to change the world.
February 22, 2025 at 12:46 AM
I'm in San Antonio and will be at the famous Twig Bookstore at the Pearl Brewery tomorrow from 11 to 1 signing books! Yes, it's cold, but my book will warm up you up! Please drop by and say hello! We're simply trying to change the world.
Enjoyed listening to Morning Joe this morning for the first time in a ling time, though Willie Geist wasn't there. The only reason I enjoyed it is because Joe and Mikka were nowhere to be found. Sorry, guys, but I don't want to listen to you anymore. Come back soon, Willie.
February 18, 2025 at 1:42 AM
Enjoyed listening to Morning Joe this morning for the first time in a ling time, though Willie Geist wasn't there. The only reason I enjoyed it is because Joe and Mikka were nowhere to be found. Sorry, guys, but I don't want to listen to you anymore. Come back soon, Willie.
San Antonio - please come to my book launch party!!!
February 17, 2025 at 7:32 PM
San Antonio - please come to my book launch party!!!
One of the biggest complaints I hear in marriage therapy is that husbands pester their wives for sex like a predator seeking its prey. There has to be a better way.
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Dudes, Stop Pestering Your Wives for Sex.
Why Lifelong Sexual Coercion Makes Women Weary.
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February 16, 2025 at 3:11 PM
One of the biggest complaints I hear in marriage therapy is that husbands pester their wives for sex like a predator seeking its prey. There has to be a better way.
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Even in these crazy political times, overreactions are trauma-based feelings. Check it out ...
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How Overreacting Reveals Big, Legitimate Feelings.
Understanding What Intense Emotions and Reactions Mean.
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February 16, 2025 at 3:10 PM
Even in these crazy political times, overreactions are trauma-based feelings. Check it out ...
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How Overreacting Reveals Big, Legitimate Feelings.
Understanding What Intense Emotions and Reactions Mean.
medium.com
February 15, 2025 at 11:23 PM
I can't stop writing to get people motivated to live their best lives ...
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Ignoring Naysayers is The Key to Success.
Focus On What You Need to Do, Not What They Want You To Do.
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February 12, 2025 at 4:31 AM
I can't stop writing to get people motivated to live their best lives ...
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I still love the Chiefs.
February 10, 2025 at 3:12 AM
I still love the Chiefs.
Dudes, Stop Pestering Your Wives for Sex.
Why Lifelong Sexual Coercion Makes Women Weary.
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February 7, 2025 at 4:52 PM
Spend lots and lots of time dating and getting to know what kind of person is right for you.
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A Lazy Effort in Mate Selection Often Predicts Divorce.
Why Dating A Few To Find The One is Misguided.
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February 3, 2025 at 1:48 AM
Spend lots and lots of time dating and getting to know what kind of person is right for you.
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