OldBae
dorianbae.bsky.social
OldBae
@dorianbae.bsky.social
Trans man. Left to my own devices I'd be making mead and playing with my friends and chosen family in the woods. Choosing kindness as my strength. Pet cats, lift heavy, laugh in the teeth of despair.
Oooooh, that explains so much. Thank you!
December 27, 2025 at 2:19 PM
Same if he was telling his Jewish classmate they were going to Hell. Doing otherwise, ignoring the bad behavior, hurts his minority classmates. I'm sick and tired of privileging the bad behavior of the majority and letting them repeat the sins of their fathers.
December 27, 2025 at 4:19 AM
"Free speech" so often seems to mean "freedom from consequences". If little Billy calls his trans girl classmate "him", he *absolutely* needs to be told that's wrong, with consequences if the behavior continues.
December 27, 2025 at 4:17 AM
Also, controlled speech in school has always been a thing. I wasn't allowed to call my Black classmates slurs (ofc), I wasn't allowed to swear at my teachers, why the hell should shitty kids be allowed to harass their trans classmates?! Schools, ideally, teach kids how to function in society!
December 27, 2025 at 4:11 AM
(Spoken with Walter, not Ken! I found it telling that Ken cared more about...idk, to be honest, than the fact that misgendering trans kids is going to result in more dead trans kids.)
December 27, 2025 at 4:08 AM
Does Ken White get money from FIRE/ is he associated with them? His attack on Walter Bragman was just...weird. I have colleagues who have spoken with him on other matters, and they've never felt like he's misrepresented them. Granted, it wasn't on legal matters.
December 27, 2025 at 4:07 AM
...it's never been paywalled, you just have to click the little "x" to close the pop-up window? Lots of journalists have windows that say "if you like my stuff please support my work", but that's them asking politely for patrons, not demanding payment.
December 27, 2025 at 12:16 AM
You're a good human. And you're a good dad- the kind of dad I wish I'd had when I was growing up. The world needs more people like you in it.
December 26, 2025 at 5:08 AM
Also, I'm just straight-up saving this entire post to try all of these recipes throughout the year. Thank you so much!
December 25, 2025 at 7:11 PM
Thanks so much! I'll give it a try ☺️
December 25, 2025 at 7:09 PM
I can't for the life of me figure out what to do with Träkál. I got a bottle out of curiosity, but it's been gathering dust ever since.
December 25, 2025 at 4:02 PM