out of sorts is an idiom, and therefore descriptive (17th century typographers) while out of fucks is a literal statement? If that makes sense - in my head it sort of does

When they’re younger (and for quite a few, before they have your own kids) the “hey, we turned out fine inspite of the beatings” argument seems to hold

Some people never grow out of that, and it isn’t surprising that a cesspit like that other site seems to broadly reflect those regressive attitudes

People (thankfully) mock guys who continue to make their high school their identity well into their 40s and beyond.

Every year a few more people from my time in school also join the camp where the scales fall from their eyes and they realise a lot of stuff that happened to us was simply not OK