Drow XIV
@drowxiv.bsky.social
Pansexual ☆ 21+ ☆ Drow ☆ Grey elves ☆ Alt-a-holic ☆ Appreciator of Elezen ☆ Casual player ☆ Gpose enthusiast ☆ Occasional thirst traps🔞
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People like that are used to others 'jumping' when they lash out
Rich person is angry! Quickly please them!
Be the person in their life who doesn't bend. I've squared off with a guy in a 60k watch because he thought he could intimidate me with his emotions
He couldn't & he respected me for it
Rich person is angry! Quickly please them!
Be the person in their life who doesn't bend. I've squared off with a guy in a 60k watch because he thought he could intimidate me with his emotions
He couldn't & he respected me for it
December 4, 2025 at 5:05 PM
People like that are used to others 'jumping' when they lash out
Rich person is angry! Quickly please them!
Be the person in their life who doesn't bend. I've squared off with a guy in a 60k watch because he thought he could intimidate me with his emotions
He couldn't & he respected me for it
Rich person is angry! Quickly please them!
Be the person in their life who doesn't bend. I've squared off with a guy in a 60k watch because he thought he could intimidate me with his emotions
He couldn't & he respected me for it
Kick the pedestal out from under them and relish the fall
Big thing is - if she snaps at you - you CAN'T break or snap back
(This works on bullies too) If you can view them as pathetic and 'nothing' to you (like temporary armor) it becomes easier
Sounds a bit mean
Big thing is - if she snaps at you - you CAN'T break or snap back
(This works on bullies too) If you can view them as pathetic and 'nothing' to you (like temporary armor) it becomes easier
Sounds a bit mean
December 4, 2025 at 5:05 PM
Kick the pedestal out from under them and relish the fall
Big thing is - if she snaps at you - you CAN'T break or snap back
(This works on bullies too) If you can view them as pathetic and 'nothing' to you (like temporary armor) it becomes easier
Sounds a bit mean
Big thing is - if she snaps at you - you CAN'T break or snap back
(This works on bullies too) If you can view them as pathetic and 'nothing' to you (like temporary armor) it becomes easier
Sounds a bit mean
If you have to deal with her again -
Regard her like a toddler when she does that I'm not joking
Channel "Disappointed Parent" like you're the fucking Avatar
Talk calmly but talk DOWN
"I think you need a moment to get control of yourself"
"Nobody else is acting this way"
Regard her like a toddler when she does that I'm not joking
Channel "Disappointed Parent" like you're the fucking Avatar
Talk calmly but talk DOWN
"I think you need a moment to get control of yourself"
"Nobody else is acting this way"
December 4, 2025 at 5:05 PM
If you have to deal with her again -
Regard her like a toddler when she does that I'm not joking
Channel "Disappointed Parent" like you're the fucking Avatar
Talk calmly but talk DOWN
"I think you need a moment to get control of yourself"
"Nobody else is acting this way"
Regard her like a toddler when she does that I'm not joking
Channel "Disappointed Parent" like you're the fucking Avatar
Talk calmly but talk DOWN
"I think you need a moment to get control of yourself"
"Nobody else is acting this way"
I also get the "Freelancing" suggestion & even had a BOSS of mine angry I wouldn't freelance the REST of my available time for him no matter how much he paid.
I had to tell him "My free time isn't for sale. In freelance you're not my boss you're my client. As my client I'm telling you - NO."
I had to tell him "My free time isn't for sale. In freelance you're not my boss you're my client. As my client I'm telling you - NO."
December 1, 2025 at 10:11 PM
I also get the "Freelancing" suggestion & even had a BOSS of mine angry I wouldn't freelance the REST of my available time for him no matter how much he paid.
I had to tell him "My free time isn't for sale. In freelance you're not my boss you're my client. As my client I'm telling you - NO."
I had to tell him "My free time isn't for sale. In freelance you're not my boss you're my client. As my client I'm telling you - NO."
I'm SUPER picky about apps but when I used to run into those ads I noticed a small timer would appear in an upper corner and count down. At zero, the timer changed to an "X" and I could close the ad without playing
So I quit interacting with those ads and waited them out. I HATE manipulative ads
So I quit interacting with those ads and waited them out. I HATE manipulative ads
November 28, 2025 at 5:49 AM
I'm SUPER picky about apps but when I used to run into those ads I noticed a small timer would appear in an upper corner and count down. At zero, the timer changed to an "X" and I could close the ad without playing
So I quit interacting with those ads and waited them out. I HATE manipulative ads
So I quit interacting with those ads and waited them out. I HATE manipulative ads
I cannot emphasize enough that gay people "creating their own spaces" is what led to the police harassment which sparked the Stonewall riot which is the ENTIRE REASON we have "Pride" in the first place.
So, no, we already did that. We already offered that. It was violently torn away.
So, no, we already did that. We already offered that. It was violently torn away.
November 11, 2025 at 7:55 PM
I cannot emphasize enough that gay people "creating their own spaces" is what led to the police harassment which sparked the Stonewall riot which is the ENTIRE REASON we have "Pride" in the first place.
So, no, we already did that. We already offered that. It was violently torn away.
So, no, we already did that. We already offered that. It was violently torn away.
Bonus - melanistic Savannah cat was a CLOSE SECOND because I mean LOOK...
But the black viper is much more dangerous to humans (so the severity comes across better) and the fact that they don't have a "tell" before striking meant they're perfect for him...
But oh my god -
But the black viper is much more dangerous to humans (so the severity comes across better) and the fact that they don't have a "tell" before striking meant they're perfect for him...
But oh my god -
November 10, 2025 at 4:40 PM
Bonus - melanistic Savannah cat was a CLOSE SECOND because I mean LOOK...
But the black viper is much more dangerous to humans (so the severity comes across better) and the fact that they don't have a "tell" before striking meant they're perfect for him...
But oh my god -
But the black viper is much more dangerous to humans (so the severity comes across better) and the fact that they don't have a "tell" before striking meant they're perfect for him...
But oh my god -
No seriously though I'd always struggled with forced march and the spinny finger thing but ever since the collab I've improved so much!
If you have trouble with any of those (especially just recognizing/remembering the symbols) Fall Guys will burn it into your brain.
If you have trouble with any of those (especially just recognizing/remembering the symbols) Fall Guys will burn it into your brain.
November 10, 2025 at 3:43 PM
No seriously though I'd always struggled with forced march and the spinny finger thing but ever since the collab I've improved so much!
If you have trouble with any of those (especially just recognizing/remembering the symbols) Fall Guys will burn it into your brain.
If you have trouble with any of those (especially just recognizing/remembering the symbols) Fall Guys will burn it into your brain.
Oh my gosh!?!? I'm PRETTY sure that's a tattoo, it's just that it's so smooth it genuinely looks like paint, it's so stunning. Whoever did that is extremely talented. Absolutely breathtaking work!
And it goes so well with your art aesthetic!
And it goes so well with your art aesthetic!
November 10, 2025 at 3:38 PM
Oh my gosh!?!? I'm PRETTY sure that's a tattoo, it's just that it's so smooth it genuinely looks like paint, it's so stunning. Whoever did that is extremely talented. Absolutely breathtaking work!
And it goes so well with your art aesthetic!
And it goes so well with your art aesthetic!
I like dabbling with the whole "if evil why hot?" with a heaping side of "strong/scary/ruthless armored character rendered completely helpless by gentleness." (There's some way deeper undercurrents there)
And then just DESTROYING that illusion by showing them in the goofy stuff they wear in game XD
And then just DESTROYING that illusion by showing them in the goofy stuff they wear in game XD
November 8, 2025 at 1:33 AM
I like dabbling with the whole "if evil why hot?" with a heaping side of "strong/scary/ruthless armored character rendered completely helpless by gentleness." (There's some way deeper undercurrents there)
And then just DESTROYING that illusion by showing them in the goofy stuff they wear in game XD
And then just DESTROYING that illusion by showing them in the goofy stuff they wear in game XD
IT WAS SO WEIRD!
A friend of mine went to an Elezen RP event/venue/thing (??) and sent me a screenshot as a "this is neat you should check it out" thing
And there you were.... writing extremely passionately about soup. XD 10/10
A friend of mine went to an Elezen RP event/venue/thing (??) and sent me a screenshot as a "this is neat you should check it out" thing
And there you were.... writing extremely passionately about soup. XD 10/10
November 8, 2025 at 12:35 AM
IT WAS SO WEIRD!
A friend of mine went to an Elezen RP event/venue/thing (??) and sent me a screenshot as a "this is neat you should check it out" thing
And there you were.... writing extremely passionately about soup. XD 10/10
A friend of mine went to an Elezen RP event/venue/thing (??) and sent me a screenshot as a "this is neat you should check it out" thing
And there you were.... writing extremely passionately about soup. XD 10/10
This sucks because I know (from a weirdly second-hand coincidence) how excellent of a writer you are. Not only is that unhinged behavior but it's also giving me "mooching" vibes. Like "clearly wants (x) fanfic but won't actually pay money for it."
Weirdly possessive & also straight-up USING you
Weirdly possessive & also straight-up USING you
November 8, 2025 at 12:29 AM
This sucks because I know (from a weirdly second-hand coincidence) how excellent of a writer you are. Not only is that unhinged behavior but it's also giving me "mooching" vibes. Like "clearly wants (x) fanfic but won't actually pay money for it."
Weirdly possessive & also straight-up USING you
Weirdly possessive & also straight-up USING you
If you have a library near you they probably have a printer you can use for cheap! I personally got a little portable canon printer just for journaling so I can fold it up and put it away.
November 7, 2025 at 10:17 PM
If you have a library near you they probably have a printer you can use for cheap! I personally got a little portable canon printer just for journaling so I can fold it up and put it away.
I TRY to spread the word whenever I see the "Alt Text" discussion like "DO THE THING!"
I have ADHD so "habits" don't actually stick to me like they do with other people.
I have ADHD so "habits" don't actually stick to me like they do with other people.
a cartoon character says zhu li do the thing while holding a camera
Alt: A scene from the Legend of Korra of the character Varrick, a man with wavy brown hair and a pencil mustache declaring "Zhu Li! Do the thing!" to his assistant, Zhu Li, standing behind him. This is a running joke throughout the series and results in Zhu Li doing anything from flipping a simple switch to revealing an elaborate contraption.
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November 4, 2025 at 4:56 PM
I TRY to spread the word whenever I see the "Alt Text" discussion like "DO THE THING!"
I have ADHD so "habits" don't actually stick to me like they do with other people.
I have ADHD so "habits" don't actually stick to me like they do with other people.
Mine is always there! The QUALITY is "ehhhh" but it always exists!
For those like me who are forgetful - if you go under "Settings" and "Accessibility" there's a box you can check to REQUIRE alt text before posting!
So bsky won't let you post til you fill it in! It's really handy!
For those like me who are forgetful - if you go under "Settings" and "Accessibility" there's a box you can check to REQUIRE alt text before posting!
So bsky won't let you post til you fill it in! It's really handy!
November 4, 2025 at 4:42 PM
Mine is always there! The QUALITY is "ehhhh" but it always exists!
For those like me who are forgetful - if you go under "Settings" and "Accessibility" there's a box you can check to REQUIRE alt text before posting!
So bsky won't let you post til you fill it in! It's really handy!
For those like me who are forgetful - if you go under "Settings" and "Accessibility" there's a box you can check to REQUIRE alt text before posting!
So bsky won't let you post til you fill it in! It's really handy!
I was JUST screaming about this last night!!! (Spooky coincidence!) It is so creepy. I joined hoping for solidarity because my family was being pushy...
But they literally post fantasies about HURTING children with things like "mace" and "mortars" it's disgusting
I can't stand that subreddit
But they literally post fantasies about HURTING children with things like "mace" and "mortars" it's disgusting
I can't stand that subreddit
November 1, 2025 at 9:54 PM
I was JUST screaming about this last night!!! (Spooky coincidence!) It is so creepy. I joined hoping for solidarity because my family was being pushy...
But they literally post fantasies about HURTING children with things like "mace" and "mortars" it's disgusting
I can't stand that subreddit
But they literally post fantasies about HURTING children with things like "mace" and "mortars" it's disgusting
I can't stand that subreddit
I voted early!
The school board election was stressful. I went with who the teachers union backed (although I still thoroughly checked out everyone) but it was like...
"You can have the one with questionable corporate ties or questionable past experience " T_T
It wasn't great
The school board election was stressful. I went with who the teachers union backed (although I still thoroughly checked out everyone) but it was like...
"You can have the one with questionable corporate ties or questionable past experience " T_T
It wasn't great
November 1, 2025 at 7:13 AM
I voted early!
The school board election was stressful. I went with who the teachers union backed (although I still thoroughly checked out everyone) but it was like...
"You can have the one with questionable corporate ties or questionable past experience " T_T
It wasn't great
The school board election was stressful. I went with who the teachers union backed (although I still thoroughly checked out everyone) but it was like...
"You can have the one with questionable corporate ties or questionable past experience " T_T
It wasn't great