Also bonus points for the hotness & intimacy of someone very clever who chooses to let YOU be the one with whom they let down the barriers and insecurities about that and itch the itch that they might actually be very very dumb (am I speaking from personal experience? I don’t know, am I?? 😵‍💫)

See the Mature Intelligent Partner Who Is My Intellectual Equal is actually very tricky to get right 🥲
ESPECIALLY when you then want to combine it with the fetish bits

@chorlax1234.bsky.social I think someone’s very definitely on the same page as you here 👀

👀

Ghost of Christmas Past 🕯️
Ghost of Christmas Present 🎁
Ghost of Christmas Yet to CUM 🥵🥵🥵

They're slowwwwwly starting to become more and more prevalent in the UK as well

Ohoho… did I say I was complaining? 😏

Oh good lord I think you told me about this 😭

I mean don’t let anything stop you from drawing, go for it!
I very occasionally do art work of other people and the like. Normally when someone makes the suggestion.

actually be interested in YOU as a person and what YOU want
Be a little bit selfish
Do what makes YOU feel good
Don’t cave in to anything people want/say/think you should or shouldn’t do
If you want to explore this with someone make sure they meet you halfway
Good luck x

Just sharing the advice I wish I’d got when I started 🤷‍♂️
It’s a super fun set of kinks but can be hard to deal with sometimes
And I’d say as a last thing
Don’t let anyone USE you to fulfill THEIR fantasies
There’ll be a lot of people who are much more in love with the *idea* of a diapergirl than 1/?

On the opposite end watch out for the ABDL binge/purge cycle which is where once you go back to feeling calm you go “oh god what have I done” and feel guilty/ashamed/embarrassed and want to get rid of everything - don’t do that cos the baby feelings will always come back some day later on
👍

No worries…
Trying to think what else…
Watch out for sub frenzy
Which is where you feel like you’ll do anything, ANYTHING, to make your fantasies real, including making decisions you know deep down aren’t sensible - take a deep breath and think about things when you’re feeling normal and boring

Well welcome 🥳
Remember:
- There’s no right or wrong way to do anything
- Interact with a variety of people with a variety of experiences
- Don’t let anyone try to isolate you and tell you you should only listen to them
- Have fun and be freaky ❤️