What’s more important, your own ideals and right to point the finger? Or the practical solution that makes life better for the people who are actually impacted. You catch more flies with honey. But you have to choose the solution over ego

That’s why they feel that way, the approach needs to be spreading empathy and growth. When it’s rooted in name calling and judgement it validates the impression that they’re being preached down to by someone who was no better than them last year.

I think believing in reformative justice instead of punitive involves giving people a chance to be remorseful and vulnerable