emmy
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꩜ erotic hypno practitioner of ~7 yrs
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꩜ erotic hypno practitioner of ~7 yrs
✨ special ai artist
😽 lets meet in vrchat
im picking up what youre putting down here
October 3, 2023 at 4:05 PM
im picking up what youre putting down here
i am in one cis male chatroom. recently a guy was dumped by his cis girlfriend. another poster suggested he was probably too nice and she felt like she already secured his attention and therefore got bored. i thought this was extremely fucking stupid. the time crystal is very complex.
July 14, 2023 at 8:31 PM
i am in one cis male chatroom. recently a guy was dumped by his cis girlfriend. another poster suggested he was probably too nice and she felt like she already secured his attention and therefore got bored. i thought this was extremely fucking stupid. the time crystal is very complex.
i DEFINITELY remember feeling a lot like maybe my life would be better if i adopted some behaviors that were popular among douchey guys and unpopular among feminists. all i can say is that its been many years since it would even be coherent to contemplate something like that. this is by design.
July 14, 2023 at 8:28 PM
i DEFINITELY remember feeling a lot like maybe my life would be better if i adopted some behaviors that were popular among douchey guys and unpopular among feminists. all i can say is that its been many years since it would even be coherent to contemplate something like that. this is by design.
i think part of it is shifts in culture? at least as i experience it. jezebel type commentary on any topic hasn't even graced my eyes in a super long time. and the relationship outcomes of people outside my high iq non-violent sweetie bubble are also invisible to me (unlike in school).
July 14, 2023 at 8:26 PM
i think part of it is shifts in culture? at least as i experience it. jezebel type commentary on any topic hasn't even graced my eyes in a super long time. and the relationship outcomes of people outside my high iq non-violent sweetie bubble are also invisible to me (unlike in school).
but yeah reading RtR I also get the distinct feeling that it would have been really idk salient to me ages 16-20 and now its mostly just like reading about some conflict between people you dont know and you are just trying to get the details straight
July 14, 2023 at 8:20 PM
but yeah reading RtR I also get the distinct feeling that it would have been really idk salient to me ages 16-20 and now its mostly just like reading about some conflict between people you dont know and you are just trying to get the details straight
To be clear, this isn't really me saying that ghouls bullying lonely "nice guy" men have a point. I do wonder how much I have joined them. It's easy to pick on people who are low status, and there is really nothing lower status than for example posting about feeling like a disposable male.
July 14, 2023 at 8:11 PM
To be clear, this isn't really me saying that ghouls bullying lonely "nice guy" men have a point. I do wonder how much I have joined them. It's easy to pick on people who are low status, and there is really nothing lower status than for example posting about feeling like a disposable male.
My main feeling is that cis het dating is fundamentally quite fucked. If one isn't mentally flexible enough to... do something else... even though it sucks for them and they hate it, then I feel bad for them, and respect them less.
July 14, 2023 at 8:07 PM
My main feeling is that cis het dating is fundamentally quite fucked. If one isn't mentally flexible enough to... do something else... even though it sucks for them and they hate it, then I feel bad for them, and respect them less.
This is pretty interesting. I havent read these posts fully but I kinda know what you mean. I was a lot angrier about feminism in the past. Now my reactions (for example re "disposable male" poster from vibecamp) are in some ways closer to the feminist antagonists of RtR than niceguy protag.
July 14, 2023 at 8:04 PM
This is pretty interesting. I havent read these posts fully but I kinda know what you mean. I was a lot angrier about feminism in the past. Now my reactions (for example re "disposable male" poster from vibecamp) are in some ways closer to the feminist antagonists of RtR than niceguy protag.
what about cross posting do people like that
July 8, 2023 at 4:10 PM
what about cross posting do people like that