ppl who demand u need 2 have trauma (and "prove it") ignore systematic forms of trauma like being a poc / disabled / etc. those "dont count" as "traumatic enough" and it turns into the suffering olympics - only ppl who have "enough" trauma are allowed to engage in dark kink 🎠

mi toki pona! sina ken toki e mi :) sina wile la mi jo e discord
// i speak tp! u can talk w me :) if you want, i have discord 🎱