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erimachina.bsky.social
Eri - Trans Sapphic Dike
@erimachina.bsky.social
🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈
She/Her
Lover of Sci-fi, video games and TTRPGs.
Still figuring my shit out
I wish I felt more comfortable in a suit....
Cause I could absolutely do evil things to you....
December 28, 2025 at 6:10 AM
I'm sorry love...
November 27, 2025 at 7:49 PM
Ahhhh
The memories~
October 16, 2025 at 2:28 PM
👀
I see you ~
October 16, 2025 at 2:24 PM
This is amazing! I love them so much!
September 26, 2025 at 12:06 AM
Lol
Dork
September 23, 2025 at 12:42 AM
Buh
June 28, 2025 at 12:54 AM
Mmmmm
Yeah.....
Purely innocent reasons, I'm sure....
June 28, 2025 at 12:43 AM
Mmmmmm

Very lewd
June 26, 2025 at 7:21 PM
Right.
And not to be sarcastic, but I think you answered your own question on how not to make it feel forced.
It takes work and growth with communicating boundaries, capacities, desires, ECT..
October 27, 2023 at 2:29 AM
That's a reasonable interpretation.
I guess I interpret "not forced" as "easy" which I realize isn't what you meant.
October 27, 2023 at 2:21 AM
On the short term, the start of our relationship, I guess I didn't go in with the expectations of any sort of romantic relationship.
This was my friend, and I wanted to spend time with them. Then, I guess it hurt to be away from them.
October 27, 2023 at 2:19 AM
So to prefix this, I have been with my partner for 18-ish years.
But there are times when things feel forced.
We have been through some shit over the years. But where we have always settled was that we wanted to be here for each other.
And sometimes that meant forcing things.
October 27, 2023 at 2:17 AM
Lol
Same, for me that is a more recent acceptance that I'm also Polyamorous. Which I think for me is just a better understanding of my feelings. I want to have deep connections to all the people I care deeply for. And I want the same for my partner/s.
October 27, 2023 at 2:08 AM
And lastly, for Demi-romantic, there isn't just one answer.
I have two other friends who are Demi-romantic and they have slightly different views on it.
The major overlap for us is that we can only "love" a person we already cared about. And that "love" is slightly different for the 3 of us.
October 27, 2023 at 1:51 AM
And when I started to have feelings of "I really want to be with this person more, be there for them." We start "dating" which was just doing all the same shit we did before.
I can develop "romantic" feelings, and they feel like a deeping of feelings. Wanting to be that supportive partner for them.
October 27, 2023 at 1:46 AM
So, for me, a date is just a hangout with a friend. Like you, I can't see the difference between a "romantic" date, and just spending time with someone I care about.
I was friends with my partner for a few years before we dated. 1/2
October 27, 2023 at 1:44 AM
So I'm Demi-romantic, falls under Aro.
For myself, I find that I have zero interest in dating a person that I don't like as a friend. It's to the point that I can't even imagine it.
Like what's the point? I don't know if I like this person, why date them.
I don't know if that helps...
October 27, 2023 at 1:31 AM
This is something I honestly am looking forward to.
It's been slowly happening since I started progesterone.
October 2, 2023 at 12:36 AM
YESSSSS!
Farscape is so good!
Just weird and bizarre Sci-fi.
I love it!
September 27, 2023 at 9:37 PM
It really is!
Best book I read this year.
September 27, 2023 at 4:04 PM