Erin 🍉
erinpraline.bsky.social
Erin 🍉
@erinpraline.bsky.social
She/Her, 31, ADHD & Autism. Adult Survivor of Childhood neglect and Violence. Budding guitarist.
I've learned the hard way that safety and inclusivity often disappear once someone who isn't liked within a group is involved
December 11, 2025 at 5:38 AM
I was expressing empathy here
December 11, 2025 at 2:50 AM
Trust me I know, when I came out as trans late 2018 a cis lesbian I knew pre-transition accused me of only transitioning in an attempt to date her and started spreading wild false rumors about me
December 11, 2025 at 2:47 AM
don't make sexual jokes towards people you don't know
December 11, 2025 at 2:41 AM
I am literally a trans woman, also you control the content you see
December 11, 2025 at 2:40 AM
oh well it's still weird ngl
December 11, 2025 at 2:35 AM
Tran women are women... until it involves sex and dating then allies treat us like men
December 11, 2025 at 2:34 AM
if you're coming into our mentions advertising you're masturbating please don't none of us consented to being involved with that
December 11, 2025 at 2:33 AM
Unfortunately the vast majority of cis people, even allies are transphobic. There's polls that show the majority of cis lesbians feel this way :/
December 11, 2025 at 2:31 AM
huh?
December 11, 2025 at 2:30 AM
Shit like this is why I refuse to date cis people
December 11, 2025 at 2:29 AM
It really shows when cis lesbians say they will date/sleep with trans men but not trans women
December 11, 2025 at 2:28 AM
and they'll never admit it but a lot of cis people view trans men as just butch with extra steps
December 11, 2025 at 2:25 AM
Because a lot of cishet people are self hating bi/gay and view trans women as a way to get around watching gay porn
December 11, 2025 at 2:15 AM
Transphobes view trans women as a genre of gay porn
December 11, 2025 at 2:14 AM