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Chief Creative Officer | AI · Gaming · Storytelling
Designing Systems of Meaning

The most important thing you’ll ever design is your life. Creating with purpose, designing with intent.
From home_ to brands_ to the future_ I build things that matter.
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I grew up being taught a clear moral code, right versus wrong, good versus bad. I believed most people were wired the same way, that we all wanted the same basic things: quality, fairness, and decency.
Most organizations don’t stall because they lack ideas.
They stall after the answer is already clear. The real breakdown happens in the moment where a decision creates consequences that don’t end when the meeting does. That’s where good work thins out.

Wrote about this in my latest piece:
The Discipline of Deciding
Why work stalls after the answer is clear
open.substack.com
January 5, 2026 at 8:12 PM
Most people chase outcomes because they’re easy to point at. Titles. Metrics. Before and after slides. They feel like proof. But outcomes are just the residue.
January 3, 2026 at 9:27 PM
I’ve learned that change doesn’t announce itself. It happens quietly, in small decisions you don’t post about. A steadier response. A boundary you don’t explain. A choice that finally feels obvious.
December 31, 2025 at 8:41 PM
Becoming yourself isn’t about adding more. More discipline. More ambition. More optimization layered onto an already tired person. Most of the real work has been subtractive. Letting go of habits that were armor, not character. Opinions that weren’t earned.
December 27, 2025 at 7:51 PM
The holidays tend to compress everything. Joy, grief, obligation, nostalgia stacked together and labeled “cheer.” I don’t think this season is actually about being happy. It’s about contrast. Who’s missing. What changed. The quiet distance between who you were last year and who you are now.
December 27, 2025 at 7:51 AM
You reach a certain age and realize family isn’t defined by proximity or obligation. It’s defined by who shows up with care, attention and a willingness to be present.

Blood gives you a starting point. It doesn’t guarantee alignment. And it doesn’t excuse neglect.
December 26, 2025 at 3:08 AM
I grew up learning how to stay functional instead of learning how to feel. Emotions were treated like distractions, something to work around rather than understand. It made us efficient, but it also made a lot of people disconnected.
December 23, 2025 at 8:04 PM
Most creative work doesn’t fall apart because of bad ideas or weak talent. It falls apart because trust breaks long before anyone notices.
The Invisible Contract
Why trust, not talent, determines whether creative work holds or collapses.
open.substack.com
December 17, 2025 at 5:06 PM
Stillness is a design problem. Most of us treat it like a luxury feature you earn after the work is done. Except the work never ends, so you never get the exhale.

Motion is the drug. It looks productive. It also keeps you from the one meeting you cannot reschedule, the one with yourself.
December 16, 2025 at 3:05 AM
The older I get, the more I realize mastery isn’t some dramatic breakthrough. It’s the accumulation of small, disciplined choices nobody applauds.
December 16, 2025 at 2:51 AM
Wild thing about getting older. You start to realize most people are just confidently guessing. Titles, ladders, rooms that used to feel intimidating… half the time no one in them actually knows what they’re doing.
December 6, 2025 at 5:21 PM
The world is drowning in beautiful things that don’t mean anything. We keep polishing the surface while the foundation is cracking underneath. This new piece is about the structure that real work needs to survive. The part that doesn’t show up decks, but determines whether anything will last.
The Architecture of Meaning
How the best work holds together beneath the surface.
open.substack.com
December 3, 2025 at 8:12 PM
The older I get, the more I realize knowledge isn’t the separator, reliability is. Lots of people know things. Very few follow through.
December 2, 2025 at 7:28 PM
It’s strange how fast we turn real fear into something we feel obligated to share. Not out of vanity, but because the platforms trained us to narrate everything as it happens.
November 30, 2025 at 9:09 PM
Pleasure keeps you busy. Meaning keeps you honest. And most of us don’t realize how different those two paths are until life forces the lesson. Distraction will numb you, but it won’t move you.
November 24, 2025 at 7:04 AM
The world’s been spinning through crisis after crisis. Recessions, pandemics, layoffs, whole industries collapsing and rebuilding in real time. You can feel it in people. Everyone’s tired, everyone’s carrying something.
November 20, 2025 at 7:38 AM
One day it hits you that time isn’t the problem, attention is. Find something that pulls you in so deeply you forget to check your phone. That’s the stuff life is made of.
November 20, 2025 at 6:33 AM
Growth gets talked about like it’s a straight line you climb, when anyone who’s actually built something knows it spreads sideways first, through people, through trust, through the way belief moves inside a small circle before the world even sees it.
The Physics Of Desire
The hidden architecture behind everything we build.
open.substack.com
November 18, 2025 at 7:20 PM
I stopped trusting first impressions a long time ago. They’re mostly nerves, polish and whatever version of themselves people think you want to see. The second attempt is what matters, the moment after the stumble, when the ego settles and the real capability shows.
November 15, 2025 at 1:20 AM
The people who love you never fall for the polished version. They love the parts you keep trying to sand down. The ones who don’t? No amount of perfection ever moves them. Your rough edges are how the right people recognize you.
November 14, 2025 at 7:29 AM
AI isn’t outpacing humans because it’s too powerful. It’s outpacing us because it’s too fast for our level of comprehension. The real advantage won’t be in who can generate the most. It’ll be in who can interpret the mess.
November 3, 2025 at 3:34 AM
We built machines to save time, then spent the saved time trying to keep up with them. Efficiency promised freedom, but it quietly erased the friction that made work feel alive.

New essay on designing systems with rhythm, not just speed.
Efficiency Isn’t the Enemy, But It’s Not the Goal.
Every era has its myth. Ours is efficiency.
everettco.substack.com
October 30, 2025 at 4:50 PM
Freedom isn’t about escape. It’s about stopping the act. The moment you quit performing for approval, everything gets quieter and clearer.
October 24, 2025 at 6:50 AM
The universe isn’t keeping score. It doesn’t reward good behavior, it just responds. Be decent because it feels right. The rest finds its own balance.
October 23, 2025 at 6:36 PM
The work got better the minute I stopped trying to be understood. You can’t explain conviction into existence. You just make it, and let the right people find you.
October 23, 2025 at 8:04 AM