Thank you darling, these were in Thailand recently xx

You really do 🥰

It's perfectly human to feel this way as you grow into the next iteration of yourself. 🤍

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You get it! 🥰🤍

The key is that it's consensual, within your own boundaries and approached with genuine care.

Kink isn't everyone's path to healing, but it certainly can be a part of the healing journey for some people. Myself included! 🤍

For many, kink becomes a way to reclaim their relationship with their body and choices. When you're negotiating scenes with someone who genuinely cares about your wellbeing, you're practicing agency in ways that can reshape how you relate to intimacy entirely.

You need to articulate your desires, your boundaries and your fears with clarity. This level of honesty can be revolutionary for people who've spent years hiding their authentic selves, and sometimes daunting .

True safety means prioritising everyone's comfort over individual desires. When all parties feel heard, respected and genuinely cared for, group experiences become spaces of authentic connection where everyone can explore confidently together. 🤍

Create clear agreements about how to communicate during intimate moments. Establish simple ways for anyone to pause activities, ask questions or express if something doesn't feel right. Remember that consent flows throughout your experience.✨

Celebrating your desires doesn't mean acting on every impulse without boundaries, it is about acknowledging what you want and getting curious about what those desires reveal about your needs, and making conscious choices about how to honor them in ways that feel authentic. 🤍

But desires are actually information about what makes us feel alive. They're clues to what brings us joy, connection and fulfillment and when we suppress or shame our desires, we're essentially telling our subconscious that our aliveness doesn't matter.