much time/social attention & energy/etc on that milieu regardless, im almost 35 & i want the social lives & loves of a 35 year old woman. even if a slightly mad & eclectic-chaotic one...

still 2014 (which, trust me, i wish it was too!! i really, really do, in a way you could genuinely never hope to comprehend actually) or if my stalker ex got a head start on poisoning trans/queer people on this site against me w insane lies, though im old enough now that i dont intend to spend that