@feministi.bsky.social
GenZ feminist, survivor, aspiring writer. KYLR .
I've noticed how the accusation of "trauma dumping" is almost always leveled at women. It used to mean something but now is just more bias against survivors.
February 15, 2025 at 11:39 PM
I've noticed how the accusation of "trauma dumping" is almost always leveled at women. It used to mean something but now is just more bias against survivors.
Part of growing up is realizing that the men who raped me were not grandiosely evil, but rather pathetic and weak. It's strange to look back at them and see my own intellect and inner power so thoroughly eclipse them.
January 17, 2025 at 11:04 PM
Part of growing up is realizing that the men who raped me were not grandiosely evil, but rather pathetic and weak. It's strange to look back at them and see my own intellect and inner power so thoroughly eclipse them.
In response to the Neil Gaiman abuse-- honestly I'm tired of how rapists and out culture have used "BDSM" language to lie about what is really sexual torture.
January 13, 2025 at 11:05 PM
In response to the Neil Gaiman abuse-- honestly I'm tired of how rapists and out culture have used "BDSM" language to lie about what is really sexual torture.
Sometimes I just feel so useless as victim of child rape. I feel like I have no soul and no story and that my body belongs to the man who raped me and made child p*rn of me. I am just human filth, forever. There are probably still people enjoying the videos, even while I cry. I am so lonely.
January 6, 2025 at 3:14 AM
Sometimes I just feel so useless as victim of child rape. I feel like I have no soul and no story and that my body belongs to the man who raped me and made child p*rn of me. I am just human filth, forever. There are probably still people enjoying the videos, even while I cry. I am so lonely.
I hate the blank-face beauty standard. Like why do models always pose without making any facial expression? Humans emote. Emotion is beautiful. Music or poetry without emotion is garbage. Why is it art on a human face?
December 29, 2024 at 5:45 AM
I hate the blank-face beauty standard. Like why do models always pose without making any facial expression? Humans emote. Emotion is beautiful. Music or poetry without emotion is garbage. Why is it art on a human face?
Was anyone else told that "hate" was a bad word as a child? My parents made me say "strongly dislike" instead.
December 9, 2024 at 5:23 PM
Was anyone else told that "hate" was a bad word as a child? My parents made me say "strongly dislike" instead.
The New York Times published an editorial on the great tragedy of declining numbers of male authors. As if the industry of Cormac McCarthy and DFW should cater to them even more.
December 8, 2024 at 1:34 AM
The New York Times published an editorial on the great tragedy of declining numbers of male authors. As if the industry of Cormac McCarthy and DFW should cater to them even more.
I know a lot of people who want to move to Canada or Europe because of Trump. And I get that people are scared, but also, if you can survive staying, you should. We have a moral obligation to our community and our country's people not to abandon them.
December 5, 2024 at 8:41 PM
I know a lot of people who want to move to Canada or Europe because of Trump. And I get that people are scared, but also, if you can survive staying, you should. We have a moral obligation to our community and our country's people not to abandon them.
His smile 😊 😁
December 5, 2024 at 7:52 PM
His smile 😊 😁
My best friend is a trans woman and it is such a blessing to watch her become herself and bloom through transition. Very rarely in life do we get a chance to see someone's spiritual inclinations become material reality. Her transition seems like art, and I am so grateful to witness it.
December 4, 2024 at 11:33 PM
My best friend is a trans woman and it is such a blessing to watch her become herself and bloom through transition. Very rarely in life do we get a chance to see someone's spiritual inclinations become material reality. Her transition seems like art, and I am so grateful to witness it.
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Why did he simply use the free market to survive?
I'm sure he could've afforded private security.
Seems like a failure at capitalism imo
I'm sure he could've afforded private security.
Seems like a failure at capitalism imo
December 4, 2024 at 7:26 PM
Why did he simply use the free market to survive?
I'm sure he could've afforded private security.
Seems like a failure at capitalism imo
I'm sure he could've afforded private security.
Seems like a failure at capitalism imo
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Every day companies like this look millions of suffering, injured, sick and dying people directly in the eye and tell them to go fuck their mother.
Actually that's not true they just press a button or let an algorithm decide, they don't look people in the eye.
Actually that's not true they just press a button or let an algorithm decide, they don't look people in the eye.
December 4, 2024 at 8:49 PM
Every day companies like this look millions of suffering, injured, sick and dying people directly in the eye and tell them to go fuck their mother.
Actually that's not true they just press a button or let an algorithm decide, they don't look people in the eye.
Actually that's not true they just press a button or let an algorithm decide, they don't look people in the eye.
I hope that the shooting increases fear among executives who make their fortune from human suffering. If you live by the sword you die by the sword. If you live from human misery may you die from it.
December 4, 2024 at 9:44 PM
I hope that the shooting increases fear among executives who make their fortune from human suffering. If you live by the sword you die by the sword. If you live from human misery may you die from it.
Honestly sick of hearing Democrats defend Biden's Hunter Biden pardon. Like okay, I'm glad one person was able to be saved. But Biden has a notoriously poor clemency record. Where are the pardons for all the black men convicted of similar offenses as Hunter? What about women having miscarriages?
December 2, 2024 at 8:48 PM
Honestly sick of hearing Democrats defend Biden's Hunter Biden pardon. Like okay, I'm glad one person was able to be saved. But Biden has a notoriously poor clemency record. Where are the pardons for all the black men convicted of similar offenses as Hunter? What about women having miscarriages?
For a long time, I didn't want to "heal" from the rape I went through as a child because "healing" was always presented to me as calming down, emptying myself, and becoming blank. Emotions are not present in a "healed" healthy woman.
November 25, 2024 at 6:52 PM
For a long time, I didn't want to "heal" from the rape I went through as a child because "healing" was always presented to me as calming down, emptying myself, and becoming blank. Emotions are not present in a "healed" healthy woman.
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“Let’s medicalize ourselves out of the very capacity for desire rather than try to change the social hierarchies that label some people subordinate and lesser based on how their bodies look.” Dystopian shit, IMO.
November 24, 2024 at 7:54 PM
“Let’s medicalize ourselves out of the very capacity for desire rather than try to change the social hierarchies that label some people subordinate and lesser based on how their bodies look.” Dystopian shit, IMO.
Men can never be "muses" to women because they're enemies of art. They do not inspire, they suppress and belittle and abuse female artists. Meanwhile women have propped up, inspired, and fought for mediocre male art.
November 24, 2024 at 10:43 PM
Men can never be "muses" to women because they're enemies of art. They do not inspire, they suppress and belittle and abuse female artists. Meanwhile women have propped up, inspired, and fought for mediocre male art.
I watched Wicked and really loved it. Cried multiple times. Cynthia can really sing and Ive never felt Defying Gravity as deeply.
November 24, 2024 at 5:29 AM
I watched Wicked and really loved it. Cried multiple times. Cynthia can really sing and Ive never felt Defying Gravity as deeply.
One thing we can collectively do about rape as women: try to get on juries. Tell them you've never been assaulted, even if it's a lie. They have porn addict men and rapists on juries. We should be on there too. And then quietly advocate for women.
November 23, 2024 at 2:36 AM
One thing we can collectively do about rape as women: try to get on juries. Tell them you've never been assaulted, even if it's a lie. They have porn addict men and rapists on juries. We should be on there too. And then quietly advocate for women.
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Isn't she incredible.
November 22, 2024 at 3:38 PM
Isn't she incredible.
I first read this amazing poem from the wall of a public restroom. I love women. Especially trans women, bc it almost seems like it was written just for them. I know people are sending you all hate, but it's okay to be different ❤️.
November 22, 2024 at 5:14 AM
I first read this amazing poem from the wall of a public restroom. I love women. Especially trans women, bc it almost seems like it was written just for them. I know people are sending you all hate, but it's okay to be different ❤️.
Something that fucks me up every time I think about it is that evey single abusive man comes from a long lineage of women who went through hell and sacrificed dreams, money, and autonomy for their children, in a way that none of the fathers ever did. They stand on the backs of beaten women.
November 22, 2024 at 4:35 AM
Something that fucks me up every time I think about it is that evey single abusive man comes from a long lineage of women who went through hell and sacrificed dreams, money, and autonomy for their children, in a way that none of the fathers ever did. They stand on the backs of beaten women.
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Name names, faces, addresses. If there are doctors, police officers or other people in power infected with his cancer, the women of the world deserve to know where and who they are.
November 21, 2024 at 10:27 PM
Name names, faces, addresses. If there are doctors, police officers or other people in power infected with his cancer, the women of the world deserve to know where and who they are.
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There’s an assumption all the worst acts of the Trump administration will be committed by conservatives.
And it’s not true. A lot of the harm during his last term was committed by liberals who were trying to curry favor with their boss at work.
And it’s not true. A lot of the harm during his last term was committed by liberals who were trying to curry favor with their boss at work.
November 21, 2024 at 12:53 AM
There’s an assumption all the worst acts of the Trump administration will be committed by conservatives.
And it’s not true. A lot of the harm during his last term was committed by liberals who were trying to curry favor with their boss at work.
And it’s not true. A lot of the harm during his last term was committed by liberals who were trying to curry favor with their boss at work.
You know that moment in your childhood when you learned how much men hate you? Like when you find out that men like to tie up and beat women for fun and your heart broke.That's how I've been feeling these past weeks. Like my humanity was ripped out from under me.
November 18, 2024 at 6:23 PM
You know that moment in your childhood when you learned how much men hate you? Like when you find out that men like to tie up and beat women for fun and your heart broke.That's how I've been feeling these past weeks. Like my humanity was ripped out from under me.