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Most people don’t struggle with relationships because they’re bad at dating.They struggle because they’re optimizing for the wrong signals. We’re taught to prioritize chemistry, attraction, charm, and how someone makes us feel early on. Those things matter but are not what make a relationship last.
January 27, 2026 at 6:53 PM
Most people don’t struggle with relationships because they’re bad at dating.They struggle because they’re optimizing for the wrong signals. We’re taught to prioritize chemistry, attraction, charm, and how someone makes us feel early on. Those things matter but are not what make a relationship last.