And then add a heavy dose of heteronormativity where anything outside of PIV is wild... 🙃

(if you saw the deleted version of this with nine instead of none, no you didn't. is lie. liar told you that.)

Yeah there are a lot of folks coming from a purity culture background where the only time they'll see sex in their media is porn

Sometes 1-5 pages in if I get the ick. Sometimes in the final third if I'm so bored I just want to flip to the end

So sorry for your loss 🫂

I'm only ~20% in but loving it so far! I loved all her books so far!

Snap!

To his credit, he immediately pulled a "hey, I noticed the pronoun use, just to check..." move and I reassured him I use both she/they, so all's fine 😅 But yeah, proof nobody bothers to look at what's in your email signature because we've worked together for 7 months

the highs and lows 🎢

yeah, luckily feeling a lot better than yesterday, so hopefully on the mend 🙏

[also i have bronchitis and hate my life, i want to be in bed not doing my job]

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This! Exactly 😭