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Oh my god that would be amazing

Thank you! 🥹♥️

It's your life too. Please be careful about how often you make yourself and your body a lower priority ♥️

You know, I always tell myself the same thing but when I get super sick I always end up finding the time somehow x3 turns out it's actually a lot better to take the time before you get sick/injured and the preventative rest takes a lot less time than the restorative kind.

Sometimes the universe sends you a really inconvenient reason to take the break you've been needing 🥲

I know deadlines and stuff exist but 2 weeks worth of hand sewing when you've already got some sensitivities is probably more risk than it's worth 😅 please be careful pushing your body like that

I do think it's important to get to join in on sharing your feelings, it's called "venting" for a reason. But once the bad energy is out you must be able to replace it with positive energy rather than leaving yourself feeling negative or empty. The balance must be restored or it's just suffering.

It sucks when their compensation ends up hurting our feelings, but the fastest way to fix it is to disarm the thing they feel insecure about. "We already see you as a successful person so it can be hurtful or confusing when you emphasize it at a time when we ourselves are feeling unsuccessful."

I think it's great for there to be an outlet for both tbh. I absolutely love getting to make the fancy unique ones, but getting to make multiples of something else is what restores the balance for me. Having the opportunity to try again or repeat an enjoyable experience is VERY healing.

One of the most important lessons I've learned is that people are very rarely doing things maliciously, most of the time they're just unaware of how they're being perceived. When a person is very blatantly bragging about their success, it's almost always because they feel insecure about themselves.

This is something I'm still practicing as well, I've found that talking about it openly is beneficial for basically everyone. It's bad enough to feel jealous, it's worse to have to hide the feelings out of shame and miss out on the opportunity for people to help you heal that part of yourself.

I'm not gunna lie, if I'd accidentally done something upsetting and just not realized that it wasn't the vibe and then saw people ranting about it on social media instead of telling me, I would potentially feel so hurt and embarrassed that I would just not interact with other dealers again at all.

I guess it's nice to get this information without having been the person to have the social misstep... Did anyone take the time to message that person and (gently) let them know that it was something that people wouldn't respond well to so they know for the future?

When I heard people talk about how much more money they made than me it made me feel salty, jealous and depressed. I understand now that someone sharing their success isn't a flippant brag just because it hurt my feelings, and changing my mindset has given me a lot more hope, which I want to share.