Alr they ate beating that man like that

Like I don’t feel like the answer is running to another person

And it could be fed through meaningful friendships or hobbies or reading or writing etc idk

I’ve never been in a relationship where confidence came from cheating after being done wrong. It’s always been something I feel like you genuinely have to find in yourself alone in that isolation. But obv if that’s not gonna be the case for everyone. But the outside validation only lasts but so long

the kind of situation where cheating gives them the upper hand legally

I get it but I’m just thinking what if the cheating is what leads to the divorce and the other person ends up with the upper hand bc now they have the advantage in court of the person cheating. Now they can question your reliability as a parent and provider and etc all bc you put yourself in

That’s understandable

Yeah but I’m saying if there is some sort of abuse or kids or property or marriage involved are you not putting yourself in more danger cheating. Like there’s more to both juggle and lose cheating as opposed to just leaving

But why cheat and not just leave, I’m genuinely curious. I just don’t get the justification of cheating if you can just gtf and aren’t being held hostage at gun point