There's actually a whole set of Mental Health Primers for educators - how to support students experiencing anxiety, bullying, racism, problems with attention, etc. I'd never come across these before so maybe you haven't, either, but they're good.

www.apa.org/ed/schools/p...

this is the government literally telling you that you don't have the right to choose your own fucking underwear

Maybe! That's really close to where I live. Hope everyone is ok...