Gwendor
@gwendor.bsky.social
I am a midlife mom trying to find solutions and lovingly incorporate the negative side of things.
"It could be made into a monster if we all pull together as a team"
"It could be made into a monster if we all pull together as a team"
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What I do most of the time should be more like what I do before company comes over.
December 27, 2025 at 1:24 AM
What I do most of the time should be more like what I do before company comes over.
I hope you all enjoy the pagan traditions that lace our holiday consumerism and remember to spread a little love.
December 25, 2025 at 4:37 PM
I hope you all enjoy the pagan traditions that lace our holiday consumerism and remember to spread a little love.
My favorite Star Trek romance is Picard and Q. So much sophistication! So much chaos! So much that they teach each other!
December 24, 2025 at 7:38 PM
My favorite Star Trek romance is Picard and Q. So much sophistication! So much chaos! So much that they teach each other!
Why do we find homelessness heartbreaking when it's someone we know but disgusting when it's someone we don't? We judge and look away, all the while forgetting that it's a societal problem, not a personal one. That we make it so that when a person is fed up with life, we shove them into the cold.
December 22, 2025 at 2:42 PM
Why do we find homelessness heartbreaking when it's someone we know but disgusting when it's someone we don't? We judge and look away, all the while forgetting that it's a societal problem, not a personal one. That we make it so that when a person is fed up with life, we shove them into the cold.
Sending wishes for love and laughter to fill the darkness of this time.
Blessed Solstice and Holidays!
✨️🎄✨️
Blessed Solstice and Holidays!
✨️🎄✨️
December 21, 2025 at 8:54 PM
Sending wishes for love and laughter to fill the darkness of this time.
Blessed Solstice and Holidays!
✨️🎄✨️
Blessed Solstice and Holidays!
✨️🎄✨️
First, they came for the immigrants, then the trans kids...
December 20, 2025 at 4:39 PM
First, they came for the immigrants, then the trans kids...
I'm pretty sure America only elected him for the popcorn factor.
December 18, 2025 at 2:08 PM
I'm pretty sure America only elected him for the popcorn factor.
Energy for love equation:
Where
x=energy you spend on loving others
And
y=energy you spend on loving yourself
x~y
Sometimes x>y and sometimes x<y
But never always one or the other
Givers: it's ok to take your allotment before you give to others, and others should love and support that
Where
x=energy you spend on loving others
And
y=energy you spend on loving yourself
x~y
Sometimes x>y and sometimes x<y
But never always one or the other
Givers: it's ok to take your allotment before you give to others, and others should love and support that
December 17, 2025 at 3:40 PM
Energy for love equation:
Where
x=energy you spend on loving others
And
y=energy you spend on loving yourself
x~y
Sometimes x>y and sometimes x<y
But never always one or the other
Givers: it's ok to take your allotment before you give to others, and others should love and support that
Where
x=energy you spend on loving others
And
y=energy you spend on loving yourself
x~y
Sometimes x>y and sometimes x<y
But never always one or the other
Givers: it's ok to take your allotment before you give to others, and others should love and support that
Can you imagine being so disconnected that you forget that your own child is a whole human with a legitimate self image? No? No one can imagine having that much money, either. All I can imagine is that it comes with a sort of sickness that disconnects you from humanity.
December 16, 2025 at 2:02 AM
Can you imagine being so disconnected that you forget that your own child is a whole human with a legitimate self image? No? No one can imagine having that much money, either. All I can imagine is that it comes with a sort of sickness that disconnects you from humanity.
I was raised with the notion that not only do opposites attract, but that it's one of the hardest and most noble ways to have a relationship. But perhaps the opposition doesn't have to be fundamental differences, like what political party you adhere to or whether you condone abuse. Perhaps the
December 15, 2025 at 3:39 PM
I was raised with the notion that not only do opposites attract, but that it's one of the hardest and most noble ways to have a relationship. But perhaps the opposition doesn't have to be fundamental differences, like what political party you adhere to or whether you condone abuse. Perhaps the
I can't wait until hatred is collectively viewed as weakness and dismissed as such.
December 14, 2025 at 7:33 PM
I can't wait until hatred is collectively viewed as weakness and dismissed as such.
Why do we say state sponsored when we mean sponsored by you? To absolve ourselves of the responsibility, perhaps? "State sponsored genocide" has a very different ring than "genocide, sponsored by you!" Verbage matters.
December 14, 2025 at 4:34 PM
Why do we say state sponsored when we mean sponsored by you? To absolve ourselves of the responsibility, perhaps? "State sponsored genocide" has a very different ring than "genocide, sponsored by you!" Verbage matters.
The leading cause of child death in this country is also the thing keeping us safe from our own government. It's a twisted sacrifice. Don't come after us! We have so many guns that we kill our own babies!
December 14, 2025 at 3:45 PM
The leading cause of child death in this country is also the thing keeping us safe from our own government. It's a twisted sacrifice. Don't come after us! We have so many guns that we kill our own babies!
Those struggling with addiction and poverty usually suffer from trauma. All of their extra energy is spent on surviving and recovering, and there is nothing left to focus on career and finances the way one "should." Not only are they dealing with a rigged system, but they are handicapped.
December 14, 2025 at 12:20 AM
Those struggling with addiction and poverty usually suffer from trauma. All of their extra energy is spent on surviving and recovering, and there is nothing left to focus on career and finances the way one "should." Not only are they dealing with a rigged system, but they are handicapped.
We humans love things in neat packages. We are down here trying to make order and reason out of chaos. As if god isn't some "perfect" idea trying to manifest itself by whatever means it has available within this imperfect reality. There's something to be said for resourcefulness and improvisation...
December 13, 2025 at 4:30 PM
We humans love things in neat packages. We are down here trying to make order and reason out of chaos. As if god isn't some "perfect" idea trying to manifest itself by whatever means it has available within this imperfect reality. There's something to be said for resourcefulness and improvisation...
The slave class that gives their life hours to the wealthy in exchange for the means to buy basic human rights are being squeezed to the point where we will not be able to deny the oppression. This is not a shared existence. This is exploitation. We are being exploited for the hours of our lives.
December 13, 2025 at 3:28 PM
The slave class that gives their life hours to the wealthy in exchange for the means to buy basic human rights are being squeezed to the point where we will not be able to deny the oppression. This is not a shared existence. This is exploitation. We are being exploited for the hours of our lives.
I see the toddler has resorted to blackmail and piracy so far. Can't wait to see what other lunacy his desperation will enact.
December 12, 2025 at 2:49 PM
I see the toddler has resorted to blackmail and piracy so far. Can't wait to see what other lunacy his desperation will enact.
The oppressor can't rightly choose where balance is found. They know not where equity lies. They cling to power in fear that the pendulum will swing in the other direction. But oftentimes, the oppressed barely even take what they need when given the opportunity, much less their fair share.
December 11, 2025 at 10:54 PM
The oppressor can't rightly choose where balance is found. They know not where equity lies. They cling to power in fear that the pendulum will swing in the other direction. But oftentimes, the oppressed barely even take what they need when given the opportunity, much less their fair share.
On fb today: domestic trauma affects the brain like war, but psilocybin can fix it!
And we wonder why we are dumbed down. We accept everything we want to hear as fact, when everything is usually much more complicated.
And we wonder why we are dumbed down. We accept everything we want to hear as fact, when everything is usually much more complicated.
December 10, 2025 at 5:57 PM
On fb today: domestic trauma affects the brain like war, but psilocybin can fix it!
And we wonder why we are dumbed down. We accept everything we want to hear as fact, when everything is usually much more complicated.
And we wonder why we are dumbed down. We accept everything we want to hear as fact, when everything is usually much more complicated.
"You never know we come and go like one the interstate"
December 10, 2025 at 4:56 PM
"You never know we come and go like one the interstate"
This is not a future problem. Right now, we have not only trashed our planet, but we have trashed our bodies with plastic. And there is no end in sight.
December 8, 2025 at 5:25 PM
This is not a future problem. Right now, we have not only trashed our planet, but we have trashed our bodies with plastic. And there is no end in sight.
They say use it or lose it, maybe we should exercise our rights... Flex!
December 8, 2025 at 3:09 PM
They say use it or lose it, maybe we should exercise our rights... Flex!
When I look at all the things that fall through the cracks in my own life, I start to understand why society is where it is.
December 7, 2025 at 12:08 AM
When I look at all the things that fall through the cracks in my own life, I start to understand why society is where it is.
If you're wondering about the morality of something, imagine explaining it to a child.
December 6, 2025 at 7:23 PM
If you're wondering about the morality of something, imagine explaining it to a child.
It sucks being one of the 3 biggest bullies on the world's playground.
December 6, 2025 at 5:40 PM
It sucks being one of the 3 biggest bullies on the world's playground.