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I love when someone says “please don’t reproduce” as an insult towards me when we’re arguing online.
January 16, 2026 at 8:52 PM
Reminder to please remember to cover your tattoos when you actively participate in the resistance.
January 16, 2026 at 4:52 PM
We don’t do respectability politics or silence for comfort here.
January 15, 2026 at 10:22 PM
✨ Follower check ✨
January 15, 2026 at 7:31 PM
It’s strange how saying “I don’t want kids” is treated as a debate instead of information.
January 15, 2026 at 4:31 PM
A lot of people ask why I don’t want children, but very few ask themselves why they do.
January 14, 2026 at 10:22 PM
In my early 20's I didn’t realize that not having kids was an option until I noticed how relieved the idea made me feel.
January 14, 2026 at 8:03 PM
I’m less interested in building a legacy and more interested in building a life I don’t want to escape from
January 14, 2026 at 4:03 PM
Honestly, I think a lot of people mistake social approval for happiness.
January 13, 2026 at 10:22 PM
If a life path can’t be questioned without defensiveness, that’s usually a red flag.
January 13, 2026 at 7:44 PM
Just because something is common doesn’t mean it’s right for everyone.
January 13, 2026 at 3:44 PM
Something I've been reflecting on a lot lately is that a lot of women are exhausted not because they’re doing life wrong, but because the default expectations are unrealistic.
January 12, 2026 at 10:22 PM
I don’t think people talk enough about how permanent parenthood is compared to most other life choices.
January 12, 2026 at 8:02 PM
My aunt spent Christmas reminding me how permanent tattoos are, as if I hadn’t noticed. Anyway, kids are permanent too.
January 12, 2026 at 5:06 PM
People are very concerned about women committing to the wrong man, job, or tattoo. Less concerned about them committing to a whole human.
January 12, 2026 at 12:47 AM
I think “you’ll change your mind” is usually said to make the speaker feel better, not you.
January 11, 2026 at 10:22 PM
Society is very comfortable with women sacrificing, and it gets very uncomfortable when we don’t.
January 11, 2026 at 8:47 PM
Tradwife content sells aesthetics, not safety or exit plans. Don’t confuse the two.
January 10, 2026 at 10:22 PM
Everyone romanticizes “tradition,” but no one mentions how often it was built on women’s unpaid labor.
January 10, 2026 at 8:37 PM
A lot of men love to say they're “protecting women” while actively voting against everything that protects women.
January 10, 2026 at 5:37 PM
I don't know who needs to hear this, but liking your life without children is allowed. You don’t owe anyone an explanation or an apology.
January 9, 2026 at 10:22 PM
They broke the system:
✨ no childcare
✨ no guaranteed paid maternity leave
✨ no healthcare

...and now they’re shocked women aren’t rushing to have kids?
Please. 🙄
January 9, 2026 at 8:52 PM
MAGA doesn’t want safety, science, or truth. They want targets.
January 9, 2026 at 4:52 PM
We don’t do respectability politics or silence for comfort here.
January 8, 2026 at 10:22 PM
We don’t water down feminism here to make patriarchy feel safe.
January 8, 2026 at 7:31 PM