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I love when someone says “please don’t reproduce” as an insult towards me when we’re arguing online.
January 16, 2026 at 8:52 PM
I love when someone says “please don’t reproduce” as an insult towards me when we’re arguing online.
Reminder to please remember to cover your tattoos when you actively participate in the resistance.
January 16, 2026 at 4:52 PM
Reminder to please remember to cover your tattoos when you actively participate in the resistance.
We don’t do respectability politics or silence for comfort here.
January 15, 2026 at 10:22 PM
We don’t do respectability politics or silence for comfort here.
✨ Follower check ✨
January 15, 2026 at 7:31 PM
✨ Follower check ✨
It’s strange how saying “I don’t want kids” is treated as a debate instead of information.
January 15, 2026 at 4:31 PM
It’s strange how saying “I don’t want kids” is treated as a debate instead of information.
A lot of people ask why I don’t want children, but very few ask themselves why they do.
January 14, 2026 at 10:22 PM
A lot of people ask why I don’t want children, but very few ask themselves why they do.
In my early 20's I didn’t realize that not having kids was an option until I noticed how relieved the idea made me feel.
January 14, 2026 at 8:03 PM
In my early 20's I didn’t realize that not having kids was an option until I noticed how relieved the idea made me feel.
I’m less interested in building a legacy and more interested in building a life I don’t want to escape from
January 14, 2026 at 4:03 PM
I’m less interested in building a legacy and more interested in building a life I don’t want to escape from
Honestly, I think a lot of people mistake social approval for happiness.
January 13, 2026 at 10:22 PM
Honestly, I think a lot of people mistake social approval for happiness.
If a life path can’t be questioned without defensiveness, that’s usually a red flag.
January 13, 2026 at 7:44 PM
If a life path can’t be questioned without defensiveness, that’s usually a red flag.
Just because something is common doesn’t mean it’s right for everyone.
January 13, 2026 at 3:44 PM
Just because something is common doesn’t mean it’s right for everyone.
Something I've been reflecting on a lot lately is that a lot of women are exhausted not because they’re doing life wrong, but because the default expectations are unrealistic.
January 12, 2026 at 10:22 PM
Something I've been reflecting on a lot lately is that a lot of women are exhausted not because they’re doing life wrong, but because the default expectations are unrealistic.
I don’t think people talk enough about how permanent parenthood is compared to most other life choices.
January 12, 2026 at 8:02 PM
I don’t think people talk enough about how permanent parenthood is compared to most other life choices.
My aunt spent Christmas reminding me how permanent tattoos are, as if I hadn’t noticed. Anyway, kids are permanent too.
January 12, 2026 at 5:06 PM
My aunt spent Christmas reminding me how permanent tattoos are, as if I hadn’t noticed. Anyway, kids are permanent too.
People are very concerned about women committing to the wrong man, job, or tattoo. Less concerned about them committing to a whole human.
January 12, 2026 at 12:47 AM
People are very concerned about women committing to the wrong man, job, or tattoo. Less concerned about them committing to a whole human.
I think “you’ll change your mind” is usually said to make the speaker feel better, not you.
January 11, 2026 at 10:22 PM
I think “you’ll change your mind” is usually said to make the speaker feel better, not you.
Society is very comfortable with women sacrificing, and it gets very uncomfortable when we don’t.
January 11, 2026 at 8:47 PM
Society is very comfortable with women sacrificing, and it gets very uncomfortable when we don’t.
Tradwife content sells aesthetics, not safety or exit plans. Don’t confuse the two.
January 10, 2026 at 10:22 PM
Tradwife content sells aesthetics, not safety or exit plans. Don’t confuse the two.
Everyone romanticizes “tradition,” but no one mentions how often it was built on women’s unpaid labor.
January 10, 2026 at 8:37 PM
Everyone romanticizes “tradition,” but no one mentions how often it was built on women’s unpaid labor.
A lot of men love to say they're “protecting women” while actively voting against everything that protects women.
January 10, 2026 at 5:37 PM
A lot of men love to say they're “protecting women” while actively voting against everything that protects women.
I don't know who needs to hear this, but liking your life without children is allowed. You don’t owe anyone an explanation or an apology.
January 9, 2026 at 10:22 PM
I don't know who needs to hear this, but liking your life without children is allowed. You don’t owe anyone an explanation or an apology.
They broke the system:
✨ no childcare
✨ no guaranteed paid maternity leave
✨ no healthcare
...and now they’re shocked women aren’t rushing to have kids?
Please. 🙄
✨ no childcare
✨ no guaranteed paid maternity leave
✨ no healthcare
...and now they’re shocked women aren’t rushing to have kids?
Please. 🙄
January 9, 2026 at 8:52 PM
They broke the system:
✨ no childcare
✨ no guaranteed paid maternity leave
✨ no healthcare
...and now they’re shocked women aren’t rushing to have kids?
Please. 🙄
✨ no childcare
✨ no guaranteed paid maternity leave
✨ no healthcare
...and now they’re shocked women aren’t rushing to have kids?
Please. 🙄
MAGA doesn’t want safety, science, or truth. They want targets.
January 9, 2026 at 4:52 PM
MAGA doesn’t want safety, science, or truth. They want targets.
We don’t do respectability politics or silence for comfort here.
January 8, 2026 at 10:22 PM
We don’t do respectability politics or silence for comfort here.
We don’t water down feminism here to make patriarchy feel safe.
January 8, 2026 at 7:31 PM
We don’t water down feminism here to make patriarchy feel safe.