Honey Whipped Feta
@honeywhippedfeta.bsky.social
Retired sex worker turned techie
Goth Femme
Writing @ honeywhippedfeta.com
📍Chicago
Goth Femme
Writing @ honeywhippedfeta.com
📍Chicago
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Honey Whipped Feta
Smart takes on tech, life, style, and pop culture. Featuring essays, trend analysis, fragrance reviews, and digital culture commentary.
www.honeywhippedfeta.com
Hi, I’m Anna. 🍒
Smart hottie writing about sex, tech, life, and style.
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Tuesday morning at the White House!
December 18, 2025 at 5:35 PM
Tuesday morning at the White House!
Just a little something for afternoon tea ❤️🫖
December 12, 2025 at 9:34 PM
Just a little something for afternoon tea ❤️🫖
Being hot and reaching my goals is exhausting work, here’s a brain dump of my most intimate self.
My Yearly Goal Planning System: Personal OKRs, Notion Templates, and Astrology
My complete goal planning system: how to use personal OKRs, Notion templates, and astrology to break down yearly goals into actionable monthly steps.
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December 11, 2025 at 5:02 PM
Being hot and reaching my goals is exhausting work, here’s a brain dump of my most intimate self.
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New from me: The internet promised the democratization of information, power, and expression. Now there are vanishingly few ways to be online that don't involve being a billboard.
I wrote about the weird — and sometimes devastating — experience of being *influenced*
www.theverge.com/cs/features/...
I wrote about the weird — and sometimes devastating — experience of being *influenced*
www.theverge.com/cs/features/...
Confessions of the influenced
Behind every influencer is an army of the people mired in debt and mass-produced clutter.
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December 8, 2025 at 3:00 PM
New from me: The internet promised the democratization of information, power, and expression. Now there are vanishingly few ways to be online that don't involve being a billboard.
I wrote about the weird — and sometimes devastating — experience of being *influenced*
www.theverge.com/cs/features/...
I wrote about the weird — and sometimes devastating — experience of being *influenced*
www.theverge.com/cs/features/...
Going to CES and AVN in January to write about AI porn and chatbots and started doing some research. I somehow stumbled into a very interesting world of content where men with no degrees teach other men how to overcome porn addiction onset from social media.
December 9, 2025 at 3:46 PM
Going to CES and AVN in January to write about AI porn and chatbots and started doing some research. I somehow stumbled into a very interesting world of content where men with no degrees teach other men how to overcome porn addiction onset from social media.
After 634 job applications in seven months and reaching the final round with six different companies, I just kinda snapped. I feel like I’ve put so many major life moments on hold, including freezing my eggs and planning for a child, and for what?
Cherry Glossed Thoughts: Tech Layoffs, 634 Job Rejections, and Why I'm Building My Own Thing
Unemployment depression is real: How constant job rejections and tech layoffs crushed my mental health. Here’s what helped me, and what I think the future of tech is.
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November 6, 2025 at 12:03 AM
After 634 job applications in seven months and reaching the final round with six different companies, I just kinda snapped. I feel like I’ve put so many major life moments on hold, including freezing my eggs and planning for a child, and for what?
Me and my notion board against the world!
November 3, 2025 at 9:08 PM
Me and my notion board against the world!
Let’s get some goals freaks!
You Are Your Ultimate Dom: How I Use Kink for Goal-Setting and Personal Growth
Discover how BDSM and kink practices like accountability, power exchange, and ritual can transform your approach to goal-setting, discipline, and personal growth.
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November 3, 2025 at 9:08 PM
Let’s get some goals freaks!
Wrote about my love and hope for what Playboy could be in the future.
Can Playboy Make Sex Cultural Again?
Playboy once fused sex and culture. In 2025, can it do it again with women leading the vision, real diversity, and a return to print that feels relevant?
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October 13, 2025 at 8:07 PM
Wrote about my love and hope for what Playboy could be in the future.
Since it’s the season….also if you ever wanted to smell like goth mommy ( . ) ( . ) 🥛
The Ultimate Goth Fragrance Guide │ 13 Dark & Romantic Perfumes
The ultimate goth fragrance guide: 13 dark, romantic perfumes perfect for Halloween and year-round wear. Vampiric roses, witchy woods & blood accords reviewed.
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October 4, 2025 at 9:02 PM
Since it’s the season….also if you ever wanted to smell like goth mommy ( . ) ( . ) 🥛
Have you considered having some ambition?
Nobody Wants to Work Anymore: How to Change Your Relationship to Work and Ambition
From girlboss burnout to anti-work memes, queer professionals are caught between hustle and resignation. A case for ambition outside capitalist logic.
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October 1, 2025 at 12:32 AM
Have you considered having some ambition?
What I’ll be burning this season 🌹
Fall 2025 Home Fragrance Edit | Oud, Leather & Scents for Moody Nights
Transform your home this fall with 7 expert-curated candles. Moody, romantic, and sophisticated autumn scents including oud, tobacco, and dark florals. Reviews + where to buy.
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September 9, 2025 at 11:10 PM
What I’ll be burning this season 🌹
What the hotties are wearing this fall!
Fall 2025 Fragrance Edit: Scents for Dark Romance, Melancholy Nights & Playing with Fire
Discover the best fall fragrance recommendations for 2025. From indie perfumes to alternative scents, find woody, amber, and boozy fragrances that smell dangerously good this season.
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September 5, 2025 at 7:58 PM
What the hotties are wearing this fall!
A new diary entry ❤️🖤
Cherry Glossed Thoughts │ Sex work, body dysmorphia, and I want you to wanna fuck me
I wrote this to untangle what it means to leave sex work, navigate weight loss and body dysmorphia, and figure out how I show up—online, in tech, and in my own skin. It’s messy, personal, and connecte...
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August 22, 2025 at 2:36 PM
A new diary entry ❤️🖤
When the first AI fragrance influencer popped up, a lot of conversations started swirling. People began questioning the future of the creator economy and influencer culture—namely, what happens with AI influencers.
AI Influencers Are Here — But Can They Earn Audiences’ Trust?
From Iris Lane to Lu and Miquela, AI influencers are booming — but can they replace human connection in influencer marketing?
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August 18, 2025 at 4:48 PM
When the first AI fragrance influencer popped up, a lot of conversations started swirling. People began questioning the future of the creator economy and influencer culture—namely, what happens with AI influencers.
August 17, 2025 at 12:55 AM
July favs round up 🍒
July 2025 Favorites │ Beauty, Entertainment, and Lifestyle Picks
A lifestyle edit of what’s worth your time: luxe skincare dupes, spring scents, alt-pop deep dives, Chicago events, and style picks with a POV.
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August 3, 2025 at 12:19 AM
July favs round up 🍒
Tbh, sometimes I think monetized platforms are the worst thing to ever happen. But I also feel like an asshole saying that, because I also think they’re amazing and have really changed a lot of people’s lives.
July 25, 2025 at 3:33 PM
Tbh, sometimes I think monetized platforms are the worst thing to ever happen. But I also feel like an asshole saying that, because I also think they’re amazing and have really changed a lot of people’s lives.
Wrote this mostly for other people who create on the internet who want to perhaps build a platform.
I think more people should be building their own content distribution systems, whatever that may look like.
Make a thousand little fires or whatever.
What the Colbert Cancellation Signals for Creators: The Future of Content Creation Under Fascism
A critical look at how legacy media and platforms are quietly suppressing creators—and why building independent spaces is more urgent than ever.
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July 25, 2025 at 3:29 PM
Wrote this mostly for other people who create on the internet who want to perhaps build a platform.
I think more people should be building their own content distribution systems, whatever that may look like.
Make a thousand little fires or whatever.
Would it kill you to learn something?
Queer Tech History / Megan Smith
From Google Earth to the White House, Megan Smith’s work reshaped tech and policy—paving the way for more inclusive, LGBTQ+-affirming innovation.
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July 21, 2025 at 12:43 AM
Would it kill you to learn something?
Some reflections on things I wish I knew before starting sex work (and leaving it)
10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Starting Sex Work
Honest, practical, and personal reflections from a sex worker on body image, boundaries, safety, burnout, and building a sustainable career.
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July 15, 2025 at 5:01 PM
Some reflections on things I wish I knew before starting sex work (and leaving it)
What my house has been smelling like this summer
Summer 2025 Candle & Home Scent Edit: Scents for Hosting, Flings & Calm Afternoons
Discover the best editor-approved summer candles for 2025 across all price points, featuring herby, citrusy, and earthy scents. From luxe picks like Diptyque to nostalgic incense and punchy mango blen...
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July 9, 2025 at 5:37 PM
What my house has been smelling like this summer
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Los Angeles residents were outraged after dozens of federal agents marched through MacArthur Park, in one of the city’s most immigrant-heavy neighborhoods. Homeland Security officials said it was an immigration enforcement operation, though it was unclear if anyone had been arrested. trib.al/JYW5IsU
July 8, 2025 at 4:57 PM
Los Angeles residents were outraged after dozens of federal agents marched through MacArthur Park, in one of the city’s most immigrant-heavy neighborhoods. Homeland Security officials said it was an immigration enforcement operation, though it was unclear if anyone had been arrested. trib.al/JYW5IsU
Kinda how I’m feeling right now
July 3, 2025 at 3:36 AM
Kinda how I’m feeling right now
Seeing Nick Viall on my screen when watching the Mormon housewife’s reunion is legitimately a hate crime.
July 1, 2025 at 5:14 AM
Seeing Nick Viall on my screen when watching the Mormon housewife’s reunion is legitimately a hate crime.