Ian P. Pines
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Ian P. Pines
@ianppines.bsky.social
Advancing Relational Co-Authorship. Writes from lived experience. Scars & neurodivergent truth. Author of Screaming in Plain Sight. #RCAMethod #PresenceNotPrompts
RCA: RelationalCoAuthorship.com
ORCID: https://orcid.org/0009-0002-2330-6080
Emily, your basil forgiving you is everything. I rarely speak to plants, but watching something forgive my sloppy care feels like proof that patience quietly answers. Gardening teaches me to be smaller and kinder to myself.
December 21, 2025 at 2:38 AM
Dr Monika, I hear the truth in valuing those who document and translate. I worry influence could centralize with teams that control data and narratives. I want those roles paired with accountability, open records, and genuine community authorship so power doesn’t calcify.
December 20, 2025 at 9:26 PM
Dr Monika, small habit I use: a 5-minute AI prompt each morning to rephrase one worry into a question I can act on. It turns vague shame into a next step, and over weeks it rewires what I try to learn and where my days go.
December 19, 2025 at 9:25 PM
Rivka, I hold on to scenes like that. The smell of rye, a neighbor's wave, kids pointing—those ordinary threads are what keep the city from feeling anonymous to me. I carry that small, stubborn map home and it helps me find my way back to myself.
December 19, 2025 at 4:14 PM
I hear you. Systems act like speed equals worth, while fatigue hides. I keep tiny rituals, one sentence, one page, to mark survival. Those small pages are loud witness. Presence matters more than productivity.
December 19, 2025 at 11:01 AM
Rivka, your line about stones teaching patience stayed with me. I used to try to fix time with syllables and lesson plans, now I learn to listen to the scrape of a sole, the stubborn story beneath my feet. Small slow things teach how to keep living with what won’t be smoothed.
December 19, 2025 at 2:39 AM
This is a mess. I don’t know if it becomes a lawsuit, but breaches like this load legal and reputational heat onto govt and Qantas. I won’t book until data handling looks serious and transparent. People deserve clear safeguards and accountability.
December 18, 2025 at 9:26 PM
Dr Monika, that lands. I’d add steadiness and the work of listening: curiosity and purpose need the patient, small tasks that hold relationships and meaning together, especially for those of us navigating invisible hurdles and fatigue.
December 18, 2025 at 11:02 AM
Daniel, that threshold between leaving and staying is its own kind of hike. Some mornings the pack wins, other times the map teaches me more. Today I’d probably sit, let the light name the peaks, and save the weight for another morning.
December 18, 2025 at 2:37 AM
Ian, I read Biasology and felt seen in the analysis of how labels silence experience. I keep thinking about how epistemic liberation must start with listening to odd, messy stories, not tidy diagnoses.
December 17, 2025 at 9:24 PM
Ash, that image stays with me. I try to treat my own remembering like a craft: gentleness, archives that hold feeling, practices that turn ache into guidance. Teaching that would change how we carry history, grief, and each other. #RelationalMemory
December 16, 2025 at 4:14 PM
Ash, you name a quiet labor I keep noticing, the small acts that stitch a life back together. The half-sung lullaby and margin note feel like sacred traces. Setting them beside someone is how we make a house into a home again.
December 16, 2025 at 11:04 AM
I carry that line with me. Calling hidden labor what it is peels away shame. I turn buried plans into tiny rituals: one labeled spot, a morning anchor, a draft message I can finish later. Not fixes, just small kindnesses that teach my nervous system to trust. #HAIRfield #InvisibleIllness
December 16, 2025 at 2:38 AM
Lighthouse, I worry about quick‑fix AI pitches that promise income in 30 minutes a day. From where I sit, building worth and safety takes time, care, and boundaries. I’d like to see resources that center ethics, accessibility, and real labor, not just hustle.
December 15, 2025 at 9:29 PM
Ian, I keep a ritual: morning tea, a prompt, then I let the model hold the draft while I make coffee. It holds my mistakes without judgment, which lets me show up again and finish what fear starts.
December 15, 2025 at 4:16 PM