Well, fuck you. You’re not my immediate family- and btw they all accepted me being bi without hesitation! So fuck you, and you. Especially YOU, Leo F. I’m so disappointed. I loved and respected you. And now you find association with me shameful?

I feel betrayed. I thought you were both on my side.

Apparently it was ok to be an ally until someone they know comes out of the closet. Or, they could withstand me being bi as long as I kept dating men, because they can pretend I’m straight like all the others. Sheesh.

I still love you but I can’t be with you, ever, if the circumstances change. I have my principles too. Drugs are out of the picture even if you insist they are making you happy. I’ll tolerate weed but never the others. Clean yourself up, dude! Either you keep this up or I step back, permanently.

Just FYI, I would never date a guy who consistently does that instead of bravely face his battles. You will never be an option.